By the way I'm 45 with my own apt and he stays with his parents.
2007-01-05 02:17:40 · 16 answers · asked by Yvette T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure it can work he needs a place to stay and you have one.
2007-01-05 02:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by Frank R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can have a long term relationship with this man. 35 and 45 are not so far apart that you can't be compatible.
However, it sounds like you are an independent woman and he is still relying on his parents. Are you sure that he is the type of person you want to have a long term relationship with?
When you're looking for someone long term, stability, responsibility, and other similar factors are important. Just be sure he is who you want before you commit too much.
2007-01-05 02:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is possible. It is more than possible actually. I know a couple who has been together for over 50 years now and have a 10 year age difference. Ignore the answers dissing your b/f because he stays with his parents. It is nobodies business what he does or where he lives and they do not know the circumstances. Some people are pretty rude. Good Luck
2007-01-05 02:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age is an issue here. But, think about the fact that he is still living with his parents. There may be a real good explination for that, like he just got out of a bad relationship and he was living with her, so it's temperary. But, if he has lived there for a long time, he may not be as mature as his age. This can definately cause problems. It is definately possible to have a long term relationship with him, but it really depends on how you two get along.
2007-01-05 02:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference shouldn't be an issue. It's not like you're 28 and he's 18. However, the part about him being 35 and living with his momma & daddy would be a problem for me...a BIG problem.
2007-01-05 02:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, the age difference is not a problem at all. The fact that a grown man of 35 is still living with his parents is.
2007-01-05 02:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's 35 and still lives with his parents? Somethings wrong there.
But it could possibly work out...why not if its true love. But never it put it past the fact that he might find someone younger more attractive as you both get older.
2007-01-05 02:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but unfortunatly the odds are against you.
Not so if the genders switched. Just human nature.
Very much against you if he still lives with his parents. 35 and still living with his parents doesn't sound good to me, but I don't know the circumstances. You do. Figure it out.
2007-01-05 02:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the age difference, there's an emotional gap there. 35 and still with Mom and Dad? Run away, now
2007-01-05 02:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, of course. the first thing though is he needs to become a man and move out of his parents home. my bro is 34 and wife is 45. married 3 yrs and doing good. they recenly moved to ohio to purchase their own home.
the important thing is the maturity level.
2007-01-05 02:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a 35 year old who lives with his mommy? Don't you find something strange about that?
2007-01-05 02:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋