i need to understand this from a guys point of veiw...so this guy....i like him alot...and he likes me alot. and for a good 2 weeks we had something going....but werent going out...he never asked me out...and then he told me one monday that over the weekend his ex asked him out..we stopped talking. then break came around...and then school started again...and we started talking again...and i explained to him that i really do like him...still, and that i was sorry for getting upset. he explained to me that he still likes me and he was an ***...and that he really doesnt like his girlfriend...shes his neighboor and her parents are friends w/ his so there all that pressure which was getting annoying to him...and so we flirt and stuff now...but he says he wants to go out with me, but still wont dump this girl....and he makes me very confused...what do you think is going through his head?
2007-01-05 02:16:59 · 4 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants to date _both_ of you but wants each to think that she is the _only_ one.
Think about that and if you agree, tell him and see what he says.
2007-01-05 02:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy in insecure like most guys. Guys like to have their cake and have a second piece just waiting on the side. Seems the guy wants to have his gf and you. Improves his macho image. Cuz you know he will tell the other guys. Besides, if he can not dump the gf, you should dump him. He may want you around in case his gf dumps him. Get real, get a life, get another bf.
2007-01-05 10:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does like u but her as well.. i think he doesn't want to disappoint his parents n mayb thinks if he breaks up with this girl again it could b arkward between the parents.. if u giv him time tel him u'l w8 4 him but only 4 so long n he cnt string u both along.. no matter how much u like him u dnt want him t b in so much control otherwise he'll use it to his advantage if u do go out.. x
2007-01-05 10:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a safety net. In case things don't go well w/her, he's always got you. make him commit or go your own way.
2007-01-05 10:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋