I have always been the girl who is totally against CHEATING. But I have been cheated on soo many times. I just want to be bad for once and have that sneaky relationship with someone. I would never do this to my boyfriend if I had one, but what about someone who has a girlfriend? What if thier relationship isnt that serious, would this make me a horrible person?
I've never done this before and haven't done it yet and I probably wouldnt get balls to do it either, I am just curious right now what others think. (I'm not talking about husband and wife). Would it be fun just to have that rush of trying not to get caught and having that secret that no else knows about?
2007-01-05 02:15:09 · 8 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only problem is that you will get attached to him, and he is already "committed", so you lose. He will stay with his lady and you will be alone in a secret relationship while he is sleeping tight next to her every night..... Been there, done that.
2007-01-05 02:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea.
You will be the "other woman". If you have any morals or compassion for other people, you will feel very bad about what you have done.
If you want to be naughty, you could always find a swingers club in your area. Some of these clubs do cruises. The clubs will let couples and single girls in, but not single guys. Let that be your dirty secret. Or try having sex in public. Or in a nightclub. Go to and S&M club and hook up for the night and have rough dirty sex with someone you don't know. Or if you feel like being cheap, have sex in a night club toilet. There are many other naughty options available other than cheating or being the other woman.
2007-01-05 02:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this boat. I have been the one that was always cheated on. Even my ex-husband cheated on me and then married the girl.
I felt like getting back at men. Trust me it was not fun. I found this guy that was dating this girl for 9 years. We started talking and then just progressed from there. We had to watch ourselves all the time, we couldn't go in public where people would know us. Having that constant worry that someone was watching you.
Yeah, it was great for awhile, I mean the thrill, the spontaneous. But, like I said, you will have this funny thing in the back of your mind are we going to get caught?
Well, we did get caught by his girlfriend, a year later and she stayed with him.
It's a double negative which ever way you see it. Trust me I will never do that again.
2007-01-05 02:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Southern Country Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill is unbelievable. I have done it and the rush is tremendous. It is nice to be bad every once in a while. A naughty is often very nice. You do need to use caution, there are many people who are not so keen on the idea of "just being naughty" and cheating will ruin many a relationship. You also need to be very careful, men and women have very different opinions about what is and what is not cheating
2007-01-05 03:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by j m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sounded like that once...and then one day...i did it, i seduced a guy that i knew had a g/f on purpose...and got just what i wanted ....him...oh it was very fun...but at the same time makes you feel very guilty...but i say it doesnt make you a bad person...after all you can be a fighter for love right? and thats what your doing...in a way...and nothing should ever stop you from getting what you want and having fun doing it right?
2007-01-05 02:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by So over-used 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you really don't trust him or men in general. Is your relationship more important than your desire to cheat on him?
2007-01-05 02:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did it, i was messin around wit this woman who was married and had 2 kids
2007-01-05 02:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by are_three 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do it. It makes you no better than your X's
2007-01-05 02:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋