I have told my girlfriend how much I love her, and have done special things for her in the past(dinners, flowers for no special occasions, take her to lunch). We call each other daily. and try to be there for her, and listen to any problems she may have. But she still feels like a treat her more as a friend than a girlfriend. How else can I show her that she is my girlfriend?
2007-01-05 02:14:56 · 21 answers · asked by mrniceguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
prioe to meeting me she had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship. I know she needs time to heal from the past relationship. I let her knew that I like her alot, and always hold her hand when we are in public. I do kiss her throughtout the time we are together. And I do think about her constantly and have even brought up the idea of marriage in our future.
2007-01-05 02:32:28 · update #1
It sounds to me that you are showing her clearly that you love her. Perhaps the problem is that she sees you as a friend.
I would suggest that you sit down and talk to her face to face. Ask her how she feels about you and tell her how you feel about her.
If you each feel the same way, then ask her what she would like you to do to show your love. We all have different ways of expressing love and maybe there is something she would like you to do that you haven't done yet.
If her request is reasonable and you don't mind doing it, then hopefully you will be able to make her happy.
Just remember that you can only do so much. Be yourself. If she doesn't like you the way you are, somebody else surely will.
2007-01-05 02:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend, who was may friend for over a year, just came right out and told me. He gave me a rose and said (politely) He would like to make our relationship more. At first I was a bit skeptical and I didn't want to ruin a good friendship, but I gave him a chance and now we'll soon be celebrating out 1 and 1/2 year anniversary.
2007-01-05 10:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by rabidcavelady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what she's complaining about. Sounds like your doing the right thing's. Maybe you need to look at her in a more sexual way and get busy with it. Come on to her more and stop being so nice. She'll probably want the old you back after that and if she does'nt well at least your be getting some more.
2007-01-05 10:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. Do you hug her? Do you hold her hand wherever you go? Do you kliss her out of nowhere? Do you put her arm around her? Maybe you just need tdo do those things. I don't understand why she is so upset. You sound like a great guy who is a good boyfriend. Friendship is a must in relationships.
2007-01-05 10:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she hard to please? It seems as if you have a lack of communication, or she's never going to be satisfied. You have two options:
1. Sit her down, look her in the eyes and tell her.
2. Move on
If you are sure she's that into you, keep trying but something isn't right, is she trying to get out of the relationship?
2007-01-05 10:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tender kiss on the lips at just the right time will do the job.
In my life I have found sometimes you need to stick your toe in the water and see if it's cold. If it's cold you may want to spend your time and money on other relationships.
2007-01-05 10:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by jl_jack09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't ... if you're paying attention to her, as you seem to be, and she's still feeling neglected, dump her now before you are tied to an insecure, but dominating young woman who will never be satisfied with you until she consumes 100% of your time. After you find yourself in that unfortunate position, you're probably going to hate her anyway, 'cause you will have lost all of your friends due to their neglect. You don't say how old you are, but I suspect both of you are probably high school age. There are many more girls out there ... you should find yourself one!
2007-01-05 10:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you kiss her upon entrance and exit? Do you treat her the same around your other friends as when you are alone?
I don't see what her problem is...I would give anything to here my boyfriend tell me just once exactly how he feels about me...I think i know, but confirmation is bliss...
2007-01-05 10:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjno7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm.. I think that your behaviour already show her that your intentions are to be her boyfriend........
Dinners and flowers aren't things that friends used doing...
I think that she already knows your intetions with her, but she do nothing because she don't like you as a boyfriend....
So, try to tell with her and show your feelings... Tell her that she's a pretty girl and you consider her attractive...
In my opinion what its lacking in this relationship is attraction, kisses and activitis that just boyfriends doing....
2007-01-05 10:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a moron for bout a week, ie- tell her your not interested in talking, giving advice, hair and pjamus night, doin each others nails night, etc.... and that all u want is sex. then she will come round
but i have got to say this is an unusual situation, u seem pretty nice actually, women are weird!
2007-01-05 10:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋