My friend mother is jealous of her own daughter.I have heard of this before but I didnt belive it til now.Her mother has tryed to sleep with her daughters b/f.She is un-real .My friend loves her mom but she keeps on doing these jack up things.She already threw her out the house.She is staying with me what to do my house is crowded already,but i want to help.Her b/f stays with his mom so she cant go there and she doesnt have any other relatives here.
2007-01-05 02:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your friend really needs a friend. So why dont you be that friend. She has no control over her mothers behaviors therefore she needs a support system outside her family and you are her friend so you should take that role in her life. Tell her that her mother is wrong in what she is doing and the best way to not be hurt by her mother is to not be around her mother. Tell her she can stay with you as long as she needs (unless she does bad things) and that you are her friend and will be there for her to help her. If she finds somewhere else to move later then thats all good but right now what else does she have? Just be a friend to her, sounds like she needs one.
2007-01-05 02:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she old enough to make a living on her own. Her mom sounds like a piece of crap. Hold it down for your friend as long as you can. Can she stay with an aunt until she's old enough. The mom (9 times out of 10) will keep doing this to her.
2007-01-05 10:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Asianfmle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see if I could get one of your friends relatives, maybe the mum has a sister your friend can talk to and then get that relative to talk to the mum and find out why she feels the need to be in competition with her daughter. Did she have your friend when she was very young? If so then she might feel your friend is responsible for her missing out on her own youth so she needs to try and recapture it now. If your friend is old enough then why dosn't she get a place of her own?
Tough situation. I wish you all the very best.
2007-01-05 10:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her stay with you until she gets her life together unless you really need her out just give her limitations like an amount of time until she must move out and maybe give her a certain time to be home but dont be too strict but do make sure she knows you are serious
2007-01-05 10:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...that is messed up. is she old enough to be on her own? if not...look into emancipation. it sounds loke you are being a really goo freind to her. keep it up!
good luck
2007-01-05 10:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sick ,send her back to her mother, you don't need that jack up things in your house.
2007-01-05 10:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋