Women, not girls, I need help with understanding this situation: Translate please...?

Question

My live in fiance asked me to leave (i moved in with friend) after a big fight on New Years Eve. She said she needed space, I tried to apologize for the first day, but she said it just made her madder so I quit. That day she emailed me saying we shouldnt live together any more and that maybe in a few weeks we can have lunch or dinner and see where it goes. If I wanted to stay in the apt. she could take her stuff and go for a few weeks.
On Wed. she called (10 min. before the normal time I get off work), acting like it was about something trivial that came in the mail. Early on she said the dogs missed me. When I asked her if she had been thinking she said not really, but then started to explain to me how hury and angry she was and started crying. She said she made a list of good and bad, but didnt know what to make of it.
When she found out I was looking for home, she said not to do anything till I talk to her first.
When I asked what are status was she said she didnt know an

why should it matter. She wasnt going to date anyone else but I should do what my conscience told me to. But she could care less what I did.

She told me not to contact her unless I needed something.

I sent her an email she would get the next morning, saying I would respect her wishes and I am sorry and that I appreciate her sharing with me.

What is going to happen? What does she mean to do?

Answer 1

She is confused, and whatever the fight was about, it triggered some serious second thoughts for her.
Give her more time. If it keeps dragging on (like to where you are homeless for a few weeks) tell her gently that due to her ambivilance, you are going to find your own place and get ready to move on.
But, before that, apologize (only if she calls you again) and try your best to reassure her you still love her (if you really do) and repeatedly take on the blame for the big f-up on New Year's. Even if it was her fault. It has to be this way, or else you will never get married, and it will be a long time before you get laid again.
You already have one foot in the hole and the other on a banana peel, tread lightly.

Answer 2

Unfortunately it sounds as if the relationship is drawing to a close. Breaking up is sometimes a long process. (and pretty much always painful) I think you should cut your losses. She doesn't want to marry you anymore. Trust me... from a woman's stand point... she's done. Stop analyzing every conversation you have with her...it's pointless. Go live your own life and she should do the same. I'm sorry.