My bf is from another country. I know he loves me that much. But we got financial problems so we are apart from the start. He said one day that he cannot overcome the distance between us anymore and met somebody new days ago and it is over for us. He said he did not see a future for us together due to financial reasons of travelling. I am still hopeful that we can be in the end one day. What should I do? Hope? I love him so much...pls help...
2007-01-05 02:05:05 · 2 answers · asked by ria_lcsn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationships break up for many reasons. living far apart is a valid reason. Sounds to me that he still has feelings for you. However, he's being a realist. Let me give you an example of a friend of mine. I had a friend who was in process for amnesty in the u.s. . He had permission to be in the u.s. but, couldn't leave to go to Mexico. If he left, he would lose his permission to be in the country. His girlfriend was in Mexico, with no papers to come to the u.s.. Basically, they had no hope of being together again. they tried to keep in touch phone calls and such. but, people have physical needs. They desire the loving caress of another person. He has those needs also, as do you. Sounds to me he is doing the right thing. He's letting you know that it's o.k. for you to move on and not wait for him. Trust me. This is alot better than waiting for a relationship that just can't work out. If you were married, I'd have a different response. Because, marriage is a sacred bond that should be kept.
2007-01-05 02:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Long distance relationships rarely work and you cant force him to stay with you. He probably does love you but wants a full time girlfriend, not one he rarely sees. He went out and found somebody new, basically he cheated on you so for that you should forget him anyway as he cant love you that much
2007-01-05 02:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋