We broke up 2 months ago, but not one second goes by that I don't think about him, what we had and the plans we made..At this moment, it feels like I will never find anyone like him again...Im only 24...Am I panicking over nuthing...?
2007-01-05 02:02:18 · 29 answers · asked by xdxflong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that Katie? lol, its only been 1 month you nut, only kiddin, You will never find anyone like him, everyone is different..... But i bet you will find someone better than him if you look close enough!! Seperation is hard when you love them but...... in my opinion yes you are panicking too much...... if you like him that much tell him.... maybe he is just waiting for that.... gud luck to ya babe xx
2007-01-05 02:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I feel for you, the pain of a break up is real and stays with you until your brain re-wires itself to remove the dependancy you have on the person you love. If you let yourself, you will get over him, but if you keep thinking about him it will rip you apart. Little by little day by day you have to spend more time on other things. You will find someone else who has that magical spark which will make you breathless - get out and start looking. 24 is no age at all so don't worry just yet ;-) Good Luck
2007-01-08 05:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by 31Alpha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way over panicking. Relax. You're still young and the relationship ended, and as harsh as it sounds, you need to get over it. Its been two months now. You've had more than enough time to go through the worst of the 'grieving' process. Its time to start picking yourself back up and getting on with your life.
Get out with friends, start enjoying yourself. Is he really worth this pain you're going through? Do you think he's going through the same thing? Probably not. So you need to get to grips with the situation and find a way to get back to being happy, even if it is on your own for a little while. That doesnt mean forever. I'm a true believer there is someone out there for everyone. Your ex just wasnt the one.
2007-01-05 02:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to be strong, if you and this guy broke up for a reason, and a reason that makes you both certain that you no longer want to be together. You're going through withdrawals really, you miss the love and security you used to have and I'm afraid to say that it's just going to have to take time. What you need is a new plan, make plans to help yourself and not worrying too much about your old plans, they're not going to happen. It's natural to miss him, but don't spend the rest of your life missing him, you need time and some prospective.
All the luck
Rosie
xx
2007-01-05 02:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will never find anyone like him because you´ll find someone much better then him! Don´t worry, it´s normal to think of him all the time and feel sad. 2 months are not a period long enough to erase love from the heart. Just be patient. Go out with your friends, talk to them again, even if it´s boring. Cry if you want, try to write your emotions on the paper, change you hair style. Listen all the sad songs in the world until they make you sick. Then you´ll be ready back to real life, and go on. Be strong.
2007-01-05 02:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Latica 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cheer up....What you are going through is quite normal. It will take some time. You need to grieve actually. It helps you to grow as a person. I went through that and so has many, many people. But there is good news. I found the love of my life after a very long wait and now things are so great since my girl came along. You too will find that right someone. You will see. Give it some more time.
2007-01-05 02:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are absolutely panicking over nothing. If you are capable of loving someone that much, a better man will see that and you will end up in a better relationship. You are still young, you have plenty of time. You will find that every relationship you will be in only gets better, unless you just look for the wrong guy, because you will learn more and more about what YOU want and don't want in a relationship. Get over it and move on. Don't waste your time pining over him, you could miss out on someone better. There are plenty of fish out there.
2007-01-05 02:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will get over it eventually. Give yourself time. 2 months is not long to get over a break up. Start going out with friends again and keep yourself busy so you won't have time to think about him all the time and in the end you will be suprised if yu think about him at all.
Good luck
2007-01-05 02:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know it hurts you a lot and it may take some time to get over him but you will eventually. Try to find ways to distract your thoughts from him and with each passing day the hurt will become a little less. Hang in there and don't give up- you will find happiness.
2007-01-05 02:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by color me blue 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I really know how u feel, coz i loved a girl and we were together for 5 1/2 years and one day we broke up....
it did take a long time for me to get over but eventually u will...
just go around and make new friends...
i'm 24 too, so i can be ur friend....
just friends....u can share ur feelings with me....
write to me .... my id is richardnks@yahoo.com
2007-01-05 02:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by richard k 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it does hurt and it will for awhile. i was in a 3 year relationship w/ someone i thought was the love of my life. i am remarried w/ a beautiful 2 year old. my heart and mind still drift to that person. i'm sorry that ur hurting and i can feel it w/u. just remember that life is for the living and that the grass may be greener on the other side.
2007-01-05 02:08:52 · answer #11 · answered by Misty D 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋