i have liked this guy sam for ages. he's such a nice guy. a couple of weeks ago, through friends sam and i started to become friends, i was so happy.
i was at the gas station one night walking out and there he was. so we talked for a while and he was really nice, then i told him i had to go and we kissed. my life was COMPLETE! i walked on smiling and he tells me to stop and he says he shouldn't have done that and he's sorry....thats does he mean by that!? does he like me or what? why? it really hurts. i had liked him for months before he even knew me and then this finally happens and BAM.... he's 17 in a couple of weeks.
i don't think it was a spur of the motment thing. he looked me in the eye, put his arms around me and kissed me....i just don't get it.
and before yous say anything, no, it's not goning to lead to sex.... yea, other people of my age do, but i'm not going to. i will NEVER let anyone tell to me otherwise. if they don't like...tough.
2007-01-05 01:51:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he thought that you didnt like it...talk to him and tell him that is was ok that he kissed you and that you would like to do it again sometime...tell him how you feel about him...dont be afraid of rejection it happens to everyone....you just have to learn to accept it..but be strong and tell him how you rly feel..Good Luck!!
2007-01-05 01:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see 2 possibilities here - either he regrets kissing you, or he thinks he's offended you. If its the first, then there's not much you can do about it - you just aren't the kind of girl he's attracted to. If it's the second, tell him you enjoyed it, and maybe you should try it again, to see if sparks still fly.
Life isn't all roses - sorry, but sometimes people get hurt in relationships. If he's just not attracted to you, then this is the same as when you fell down and skinned your knees when you were 3 years old. You got over that, you'll get past this.
You'll never know if it's the 2nd possibility unless you show a little vulnerability and give it a try. You might get a 2nd kiss - and a 3rd, and a 4th, and....
2007-01-05 02:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elizabeth,
Don't put so much emphasis on this first kiss of yours. Not many people can say that their first kiss was a good one. In fact, just about everyone thinks back to their first kiss and laughs at how different they were back then.
Relax, you'll get your chance to feel COMPLETE when you've kissed that FIRST LOVE. This on the other hand has a remarkably long lasting affect on people. It seems as though we all remember our first love..... not so much our first kiss.
By the way, the more you understand your self, the more you'll understand who is right for you.
2007-01-05 02:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by msmoeller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know he is prob just trying to get you feelin the way you do. Who knows. Us boys... We're crazy, we listen to a lot of bad advice and we do a lot of stupid **** on our own. Half the time we don't even know what the hell we are doing. No one can possibly give any good advice on this matter. I would tell you to tell him how you feel, but then he will wind up not liking you if he does now... ITS CRAZY I TELL YOU!
2007-01-05 02:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by T B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he was apologizing for taking advantage of the situation (although its obvious you didn't mind.) He didn't want to offend you.
He sounds like a good guy. Simply tell him you're not offended, and indeed, enjoyed the experience.
2007-01-05 02:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wanted to kiss you for fun and then when he realized how much it meant to you he didnt want it to be like that. guys dont really have much reason for the things that they do
2007-01-05 01:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He regrets kissing you. Ask him out on a date. If he is reluctant you will know that he's not into you.
2007-01-05 01:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tat all happens in a moment.. .. he actually cares a lot for u.. he thought u might have felt bad and asked for sorry.. i don't think there is much to worry........ u have felt his love and care in his kiss.. didn't u.....? he actually does a lot for u....... there is just a misunderstandin his brain tat u don't like tat....
2007-01-05 02:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by aryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt think that you wanted him too thats why hes saying sorry if u need help talk to me
2007-01-05 01:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb he thinks that it's wrong 2 do that...sry i can't help u... u nid 2 ask urself...Wish U Luck~~!!
2007-01-05 02:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by JÖâÑñE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋