He expects me to drop everything Iam doing to hug and kiss him. Then at night after I work 10 hours a day and just wont to come home and relax or just sleep,he comlpians about being lonely and ignored.This has been a rocky relationship for almost a year now because I feel its all about him
2007-01-05 01:38:59 · 16 answers · asked by PEGGY R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever told him how you feel? If not, you need to.
If he responds to YOUR needs and YOUR feelings, he cares about you. If not, it's always going to be about him.
You can't change someone or expect them to change for you. Love is a mutual, caring entity in a good relationship. If it's too lop-sided for you, let it be known, see how things work out and decide from there.
2007-01-05 01:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you "might be" ready to move on in your life, first you might try laying it on the line for him exactly as you have for all of us here. Although he may feel a bit hurt, he will or will not take it like a man by being understanding, There is nothing rude or mean in what you have described, only facts stating worry and doubt about where your relationship is heading. You must have communication if you are having hopes of making it work out for both of you to be happy.
2007-01-05 09:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think the both of you could really appreciate eachother a little more. He is being a little clingy but if he didn't act that way you would probably be complaining about how he doesn't care about you. In situations of love, no one ever truly gets what they want. People always want what they don't have and only appreciate things when they lose it.
2007-01-05 09:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are worse things in life than I man who wants you to "drop everything to just hug and kiss him"....sounds pretty romantic to me, it sounds like he just wants your company not you to DO anything, your best bet is to find a new man who needs less affection and let him go find someone else who wants him around
2007-01-05 09:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is really selfish, relationships take work but there has to be compromise and consideration too. Move on in your life, you'll feel better and find someone who can appreciate you and give you attention too.
2007-01-05 09:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up. Tell him you want a trial separation, and tell him why you feel the relationship has been "rocky". If he doesn't grow up and learn to care for others in the trial time (I recommend a week) leave him.
2007-01-05 09:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express how youre feeling in the most sincere way, without putting him down (arguing and calling him names). If he's a real man, he'll adjust to you and things'll work out.
2007-01-05 09:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Asianfmle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now if you can! This guy obviously has security issues and needs/wants at the same time too often!
2007-01-05 09:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him quick!! Had one of them and went on for years. Get a man who is secure...preferably financially as well.
2007-01-05 09:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by kim c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a freakin baby! Kick his ___ to the curb. Find a man that can balance work/life.
2007-01-05 09:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋