i realy miss my long distance ex gf. we were perfect together and we always said we would be together forever. i was stupid and she broke up with me cus i anoyed her and was a little to controlling. it was my first relationship and i live an hour away from her so maybe some people can understand why i would be like that. but now she like all of a sudden hates me and ignores me and likes other guys. i just dont want her to erase me out of her life. she says shes not gunna give me another chance, but id live my whole life trying to get another chance with her. everyone says move on but sometimes u just cant. ah i duno wut to do.
2007-01-05 01:38:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And sometimes the choice isn't up to you. If your ex g/f doesn't want to have anything to do with you there isn't a whole heck of a lot you can do to change that. If you continue pestering her that is only going to make it worse. Back away completely and give her all the space she wants. If she has feelings for you she'll make contact but if she doesn't then you really do need to move on. I know it's very difficult to let go when you love someone but as I said, sometimes there isn't any choice. Good luck.
2007-01-05 01:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to drive over to where she lives. Sit outside in your car and follow her whereever she goes. If she meets with another guy wait a little while and then confront the two of them.
When you are home call her every thiry os so minutes, even if she dosent aswer. Leave voicemail telling her how much you need her and that you just cant stop thinking about her. If she has email do the same thing.
Call her family and friends and tell them you cant live without her and keep calling them..
Soon she will realize how much you care about her and rush back to you.
2007-01-05 09:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has told you how she feels and wants to move on with her life. You need to learn from this experience and move on too. People come into our lives for a reason and you have learned an important lesson from this relationship. Move on and take that lesson with you as you get involved with people in the future. The best thing you can do is to leave her alone and let her live her life and you need to do the same thing.
2007-01-05 09:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts, you really do need to take the hint. If she is persistent with sayin she doesnt want to be with you. then theres probably nothing you can do about it. You deserve somebody who cares about you like you care about them. Put your efforts on something else. If you guys stay friends great, but back off. You will be happier in the long run.
2007-01-05 09:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't going to make her like you again by doing the same things that pissed her off to begin with. leave her alone for awhile, find a hobby, and when you accomplish something, send her a postcard. but don't keep telling her how much you love her and miss her, she knows. give her a chance to miss you.
2007-01-05 09:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by sambo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try to be freinds with her for a while and maybe she will see that you have changed. but don't be too persistant...you don't want to stalk her...but...if she really hates you then it will never work. all of the built up anger is very hard to let go of . and you will both be miserable.
2007-01-05 09:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound illogical, but you have to move on if you ever want another chance with her.
2007-01-05 09:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by jebudas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says stay away...Take that as a hint dude and stay away. You are border line stalker type.
2007-01-05 09:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋