Why does it seem so hard to conceive a baby when you sre trying? Then you get on Yahoo! Answers hoping to hear some positive stories and what you see are uncommitted relationships, 13 year olds, ect. with a baby on the way?? And everyone you know is pregnant?!? Am I hallucinating or is everyone else seeing this also??
2007-01-05 01:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Cadillac 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is because if you are not trying to conceive it is easy to get pregnant. I see it too. Crazy how that works huh? If you are trying to get pregnant I will pray for you and BABY DUST FOR YOU! Good luck
2007-01-05 01:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sorry that you are so frustrated. We waited seven years for our child and I ended up standing on my head to get pregnant. I miscarried the first so that was hard in its self. It will always be hard to hear about someone else getting pregnant and children having children and people leaving their children with other people. I do suggest this. CPS is always needing people to take children who have not been carred for you call your local CPS office and ask how you can go through the classes to become an adoptive foster parent. You will foster the children first and then eventually adopt them. My sister in law did it and she has two very beautiful children and still have not yet conceived now she feels time is running out to have her on but she feels at least she has babies to hold. This is a different and cheaper way to adopt, and after the adoption process has went through, then you will get government help for the children no matter how much money you have.
Good luck and I hope you have great fulfillment this year.
2007-01-05 04:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! My husband and I have been ttc our 2nd child for 5 yrs now and we have had no luck what so ever. But, I have a neice on welfare and 3 of her other friends are on welfare and get pregnant at a drop of a hat! It is frustrating! Makes me cry every time my period shows her ugly face! I love it when woman get pregnant and then go and have an abortion because they don't want the baby...GREAT TY......at least have it and give it up for adoption........OK enough with that I get so mad!
2007-01-05 03:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by dietpepsigirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It always seems like people who want to get pregnant have a hard time, and those who don't get pregnant at the drop of a hat.
I think it seems hard when you're trying because you have to wait. They say the average length of time it takes from starting to try to getting pregnant is 6 months. It took me two years the one time out of three I was activly trying, so I understand your frustration 100%.
2007-01-05 01:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you......I am 31 years old and my husband and I tried getting pregnant for about a year with no luck, and everyone around me was getting pregnant (including my 15year old niece)
2007-01-05 04:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by melhnly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget that the only people who miscarry are the out-of-their teens, married ones that were actually trying to get pregnant...
Just kidding. But, yeah, it does seem that way.
2007-01-05 03:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as someone who went through 4 years of infertility workups, 3 surgeries before finally having my one child, you bet it frustrates as well as infuriates me. Clearly there are many young women out there who exhibit little or no respect for life!!!!
2007-01-05 12:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see the same thing.
2007-01-05 01:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by buka25mw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2007-01-05 02:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Domino's Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋