i've been dating this guy for a week and all he ever talks about is how he can make me *** four different ways..but around people he's sweet and kind and he's like i hope we're together for awhile...now i haven't slept with him yet...and i do plan on it in the future...but i want to know do ya'll think we have a relationship worth keeping or its going to be just physical? and how do i tell him i want more?
2007-01-05 01:24:50 · 7 answers · asked by ladywetherell23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, he's showing you both sides of him. and he doesn't say this stuff in front of your friends. I think he's probably using it as a convo starter. this is probably how he warms up to you. It might overwhelm you at first, but give him time. See how he acts when he gets more comfortable about talking about other things. He doesn't say all that when y'all are around friend probably because they bring up other subjects and he builds off of them.
Take a cue from them. Be patient.
Good Luck.
2007-01-05 01:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've only known him for a week and he's already talking about sex, sounds like that is all he is after, he needs to take the time to really know you, he may be acting sweet and nice in front of others but it seems like its just for a show, how he is with you when you arent around others is how he really is, dont sleep with him, give the relationship time to evolve to know if he would really want more than just the sex.....
2007-01-05 10:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this relationship is worth keeping because it seems like he only wants one thing especially if he disrespects you by saying these things in public, and you tell him that your looking for someone you can relate to and that you don't have to second guess your decision.
2007-01-05 09:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me , his interest is primarily one thing, you seem to be asking us, wanting confirmation, while asking yourself "When were alone, what else interests him about me?" if only sex comes to mind, then you are answering your own question. If this is his only interest, by telling him flat out, that you want more , chances are, he'll drop you, my suggestion is to definitely NOT sleep with him until you know for sure what his agenda is. This may save you time and , most important heartache.
2007-01-05 09:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is right, he should be able to f u c k more than four different ways though. Give him what he wants.
2007-01-05 09:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he thinks you're one of those girls who enjoys talking about things like that..if I were you,tell him straight out that you're not interested in those things yet...if the guy truly loves you,he will respect your decision..^^
2007-01-05 09:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the one for you. If all he thinks about is ***. You can soo find better. Don't just stay with him to be in a relationship, stay with him, if you really feel your in love.
2007-01-05 09:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋