what can i do to be happy, i feel like everyday is like the other, i mean what is the geol of life? why i am here? what i have to do? am i in dream or something? i want to feel like i am alive, what i need to do that?
2007-01-05 01:19:01 · 20 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at all the aspects of your life. Are you sure you have EVERYTHING? Personally I find myself feeling empty when I am not close with myself. Evaluate yourself. Do you indulge yourself in the things you love? Do you spend time doing what you and only you want to do? What about your religion? Do you know where you stand with your religious beliefs? Are you close with your God (whatever God that might be)?
I think of it this way:
If you wrap a bunch of crap in a nice neat and beautiful package...It may look great, but when you open it up you will find out that its nothing like it looked on the outside. ...its still crap...
Same thing with your life. You can wrap it up and make it look great from the outside but unless it matches what your heart desires your never going to feel fully complete--happy.
Look inside to your heart, find your calling, set your goals...and go for it!
Good luck to you!
2007-01-05 01:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have nothing better to do, help at home. help your mom. Or go to an orphanage learn about people who need your time and commitment to help them.
You will see soo much of a change when they are pleased with you.
Read some books about different countries and culture, go travel the world and see what others do for a living. You learn so much that you will start thinking that this is what you want to do.
You have to get out there to make a difference.
Sitting by the computer doesnt help much as moving on your own to a different world and learning new things.
You will also miss home, and that will be a direction in your life, because then you know and appreciate what you have.
2007-01-05 01:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hunnypox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think that having possessions is going to make them happy, however once they have them, it still seems that something is missing. So usually the persons goes out and getting something else that will make them happy for a few more days. However, simple things like love, family’s love, friendship or colleagues at work can make you happy because it’s something new and not just an object.
2007-01-05 01:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by hkirishmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have everything that you think you need, you still have like a emptiness inside. I understand...You can do and have everything this world has to offer and still feel empty inside. But, the only one that can fulfill that emptiness is Jesus Christ. God loved you so much that He sent His only Son Jesus Christ to die for you so that you can spend eternity in Heaven with Him. Wow!!! now that's true unconditional love. Regardless of whether you accept Him or reject Jesus Christ God's love has no strings attached. God is love and He wants to have a relationship with you (I'm not talking about religion). That begins by first becoming born again {read..John Chapter 3) (which happens when you accept Jesus Christ into your heart, believing who He is and who the bible says He is). To know that someone died for me regardless of whether I accepted Him or not just does something for me. Just understanding all of what He went through for you and I, just so we can spend eternity with Him, is amazing. Not only that but Jesus was raised(ressurrected) from the dead and is alive seated on the right hand of God.
You will find your meaning of life when you develop a relationship with God through His Son Jesus Christ. There you will find all the answers you search for if you just fully put your trust in Him and diligently seek after God with a pure Heart.
God Bless You
2007-01-05 01:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a problem . nowdays everyone feels like the way u feel u must give courage urself and pray to god do some good works try to help people live the life the way u want . take care of urself stay busy try to spend time with ur love one i hope u will feel diffrence
2007-01-05 01:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're not happy because of depression. Because depression is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain even if everything in life is good you will still not feel happy. If this continues you should see a doctor to see if depression is the problem. I wish you lots of luck.
2007-01-05 01:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by color me blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something different. God has some kind of reason for you being here. I feel like that sometimes. Like their is no point in living, but then i think of why god put me on earth. And that their is a reason for me being here. I don't know it yet, but i know that it is something. Have faith and don't just live life for the future, but live life day to day. Have Fun!
2007-01-05 01:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by morglovsya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your FIRST intstinct and dont listen to the other part that tries tries to cancel the instinct. Live life by the moment do what you will! Do what you feel is best for you right now (i.e. form a relationship, find your inner Self, pursue in your job/goals.)
2007-01-05 01:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Frater K.H.A. Zelator 1°=10□ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters what are some of the things dew you dew? and dew you have friends? if so then you should try to spend time with them...go out to tha mall every now and then...don't think that you are bored then you wont feel that way..cuz sum times it can all be in your head. another thing try date or dewin risking things. that helps alot...lol. let me kno if i help and if you found ur happiness or not and i'll continue to help.
2007-01-05 01:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by ~*BuGs*BuNnY*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the runt and go out and try something new. It doesn't even have to be something extreme but you could start by say trying a new restaurant, talking to someone new at work ...
2007-01-05 01:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by skris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋