2007-01-05 00:54:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every chance you get.
2007-01-05 00:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon how much you value the friendship. You initially think its a friendship with benefits, but friendships are based on feelings and how you feel about that person. Getting physical with that person blurrs the boundaries turning it into more of a relationship.
If you feel that your friendship has the potential to develop into a loving relationship then it can be a good thing. Most of all you'd be with someone who knows you completely.
If you just wanna play around, then I wouldn't do it for loads of reasons:
1. If you wanna go into a relationship with this person then just do and dont be chicken.
2. If it doesn't turn out well, you've just just lost a friend who used to confide in you.
3. If this person knows you will be seeing other people after them, how can you honestly think that things will go back to normal?
4. If you used to confide in this person about your previous relationship problems, if it goes bad you've just lost someone you used to talk to.
5. You really shouldn't p*ss in your own back yard if the wind changes, the smell is horrible.
Like everything this has its pro's and cons, I did it myself it hasn't been plain sailing, but we made the decision we wanted to be with her forever thats why we're getting married.
Whatever you choose to do, just remember right now this person is your friend, the only thing you ever wanna do with friendships is to treasure them and make them better.
2007-01-05 09:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by blessedthrutests26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a real close look at that.
- Falling out could be just as sudden
- There might be others joining you, so you would have to share
- Some benefits carry some heavy baggage
- People's motives and desires change
- Work out your exit strategy well in advance
- Know who your friends are - that will change
2007-01-05 08:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about jumping, but I would definitely have one. It depends on how close the friend and I were already. It would probably take a few months for me to seriously consider it.
2007-01-05 12:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that. ask yourself why you want this type of situation? is it the only way to be someone who wants to screw you but not be your girl/guy? if so, that's a rough road filled w/pain. if its an open thing & you are both level headed honest, mature people, go for it & enjoy. a little bit of distance makes things go smoother. you may not want to see this person every time you turn around, especially if one or both of you are in other relationships.
2007-01-05 09:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by L. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky one. It usually ends up bad because one person develops feelings for the other...and since you're just "friends" you can still mess around with whoever else you choose to, and that often sparks bad feelings..
2007-01-05 08:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty_in_Pink 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2007-01-05 08:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the friend and the benefits
2007-01-05 08:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tried it and it sucks when its over. I learned a big lesson that for Women at least, there is no such thing as separating sex and just freinds.
2007-01-05 08:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by sweetangel_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to you... but you should be careful not to fall in love with your friend... it can really be hard... trust me... but if you really love that person, why be friends with benefits???
2007-01-05 09:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how the friend carries them self and weather i think they could handle a sexual realtionship with out all the strings
2007-01-05 08:55:38 · answer #11 · answered by noel22f 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋