Hi Everyone! I just got engaged and will be getting married about 8-10 months from now. There is so much planning and organising to do, and I want a small but special wedding.
The internet is SO VAST, and I was wondering if anyone knows any sites that help plan out everything (some kinda journal or planner, for free). Something that will help me virtually prepare a check-list and mark them off as they are arranged. Any ideas? Also, any site that helps guide a bride-to-be on where to start!!
Thank you all in advance.
Yvonne.
2007-01-05 00:51:19 · 16 answers · asked by Yvonne Mystic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes, I love theknot too, but I need some help since I don't live in the US and I'm getting married in India, the traditional Indian way, and I have very scarce knowledge about the customs and traditions. Any suggestions?
2007-01-05 02:08:06 · update #1
I just got engaged, too, and we are getting married in August. Sounds like we have the same time frame! I have found theknot.com to be very helpful. They have checklists, contacts, beauty routines, everything! Also, articles on etiquette, maid-of-honor duties, etc. Plus... they have a wedding date countdown! Only 233 days until mine!
I think you would find just about everything you're looking for there. :) And it's free!
2007-01-05 01:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by amelia43119 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on the wedding!! What I'd do is take a standard checklist from the knot or some other site, and taylor it to make it your own. I'm not familiar with Indian customs, but you may be able to use one of the more "American" checklists. On the knot you can add and delete your own items, or if it were me, I'd copy it all over to excel. There's a site called ultimateweddings.com that has cultural traditions, so you might want to check there if you're not familiar with all the customs. Good luck!
2007-01-05 03:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Casey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try googling your city and the word weddings. I did this and came across a great site for austin, www.austinweddings.com and it even has forums for local brides to bash or rave on vendors. I'm on a very tight budget and that's how I found some nice and affordable venues. The site also has a budget calculator, and checklists but I really would use either www.theknot.com or www.weddingchannel.com for those since they save your information. The local site is primarily for the forums, but it also lists specials being offered by local vendors every few weeks.
Good Luck with planning!
2007-01-05 01:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best website is www.theknot.com It is free. THey have a checklist, that tells you what you should have done by a certain time. They also have great ideas, and they have links to other sites, that they find helpful to you. You can also create a page with a picture of the 2 of you, giving your family and friends a chance to see how the plans are progressing. I absolutly LOVE this site. And after you get married they have a site www.thenest.com for newlyweds.
2007-01-05 01:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Spoiled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently designed a wedding program for a traditional India wedding. The Ceremonial Events are as Followed:
Jaimala- Exchange of Flower Garlands
The Bride arrives, escorted by her father, after a procession of the Wedding Party. The Bride and Groom exchange garlands of flowers signifying their acceptance of each other as life partners. They are then seated within a “room of flowers,” called a “Mandap,” where the ceremony will take place.
Sloka- Hymn of invocation to Lord Ganesh
Shardha Sabesan invokes Lord Ganesh, God of Wisdom and Remover of Obstacles, to preside over the wedding ceremony. Holy water is sprayed on the Mandap to purify the space.
Ganesh Puja- Prayer to Lord Ganesh
Offerings of flowers and rice are continually made to Lord Ganesh during the ceremony
Establishment of the Fire as a Symbolic Divine Witness
The ceremonial fire is lit and is invoked with offerings of flowers and rice to witness the wedding ceremony. The fire symbolizes the presence of the Gods and bestows light and energy on the couple.
Ghathbandan- Tying the Wedding Knot
The Bride and Groom literally “tie the knot” as the end of the Bride’s scarf is tied to the end of the Groom’s scarf on his shoulder.
Kanya Daan- Giving of the Bride
The Bride’s Father places his daughter’s hand into the hand of the Groom.
Pathnigrahan - Acceptance of the Bride by the Groom
The Groom accepts the Bride, promising to treat her as an equal partner.
Phere - Walking Around the Sacred Fire
The Bride and Groom walk near the sacred fire while taking the seven traditional wedding vows. “Mantras” are recited by the priest from the Hindu sacred text, while making offerings to the fire.
Saptapadi (Seven Steps) Representing the Following Vows:
1.We take the first step for health, longevity, vitality, and peace. Let us live with honor, respect, and support for each other and the world at large.
2.We take the second step for stability, strength, and energy. Let us be balanced, productive and enjoy life together.
3.We take the third step for abundance. Let us share our pleasures and pains.
4.We take the fourth step for happiness while fulfilling our social and familial responsibilities. Let us remember our parents and elders.
5.We take the fifth step for healthy and happy children. Let future generations enjoy a peaceful and honorable existence.
6.We take the sixth step for life-long commitment. Let us have a strong and happy marriage.
7.We take the seventh step for life-long friendship and closeness. Let us remain friends who love and confide in each other.
2007-01-05 04:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally recommend the Knot.com. It a free wedding planning site with everything you need to get yourself organized in planning your big day. It does require you to register but is free and key in making sure that your personal site suits you, your budget, etc. So far, the knot has assisted me in finding my reception location, my dress and invitations. The best feature and the reason I did stick to planning with the Knot.com was that I found limitless options on my tight budget.
2007-01-05 01:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by T. K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to an indian temple and ask them about traditions and customs. This way, you get accurate and valuable information. Websites can offer false info or give you the wrong impression.
2007-01-05 05:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many different wedding planning sites. I usually use a little bit of all of them. Feel free to contact me if you want any advice - www.angelsofweddings.com
2007-01-05 02:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by Heather C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of sites that do that.The knot, brides and wedding channel are the most popular.Currently, I am using the knot and it is really good.
Congratulations, good luck and happy planning!!
2007-01-05 00:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to www.weddingchannel.com
they have a lot of stuff there. they have a checklist (i find this very useful), you can also make your own website for free (i think - i haven't tried it yet), guest list manager, fashion and beauty --- they have this kind of a step by step procedure on how to plan and organize your wedding. their planning checklist is so good - i also gave this to my sister coz she's getting married next year.
Congratulations!!
2007-01-05 04:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea's Momi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋