A question for the ladies...?
My wife does not enjoy oral, and I respect her wishes. However, I wish I could get her to enjoy it. Both giving and recieving.
Do you have any suggestions? We have talked about it.
2007-01-05 00:45:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push her into it. She obviously doesn't want to. If she is your wife then you knew this when you were dating presumibly and yet you still married her. It wasn't important to you then so why is it important now? Can't you find other things that you both enjoy and take the pressure off her?
2007-01-05 00:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a question of not enjoying it or the odd odor you sometimes have while performing it. You know no matter how clean you are there still is an odor while performing this on each other, maybe if this is the case some flavored lubricants would help.
2007-01-05 08:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by cuddles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry..she would like it if you were doing it right. Nothing like it if it's pleasureable. She's probably not comfortable with the whole 'You being down there' kinda thing....that can take some time to adjust to. I don't know if you can make a gal like to give oral....I always liked it b/c I knew it really turned him on...and me sometimes too. Good Luck..it's not the end of the world if you can't change this btw....
2007-01-05 08:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do not pressure her. That will noly cause tension. I think you have to ease into a discussion about how much you lover her and how you like to express your love in many different forms. You need to let her know that you want and like to please her. Maybe start off with the giving adn eventually work into shaing the experience at the same time. Keep it romantic, not dirty. Use candles in the room, soft music, maybe pamper a bit.
2007-01-05 08:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jcord29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like it, you can't force her to, however you should talk to her and find out why she doesn't like it... remember, not everyone gets the same 'sensations' from oral as most people would think!!
2007-01-05 08:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female like her i dont really like it myself my bf is wonderful at it but i love giving it not recieving but the odd time i let him give it to me as he finds it turns him on more
2007-01-05 08:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt even enjoy receiving?? GASP ! How is that even possible? Have you tried using flavored lubricants or maybe using unorthodox items such as whipped cream or chocolate to entice her?
2007-01-05 08:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her in a night out on the town..wine dine her and keep the linesof communication open.. telll her you owuldlove to perform oral ex on her til she screams for mercy... maybe try to talk her into just licking your c--k and b-lls alittle and then slowly ask her to take them into her mouth..take it slowly and keep it simple take your time and maybe she will try it out..GOOD LUCK
2007-01-05 08:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by mergy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to find out Why she doesn't like it, and deal with the core problem.
2007-01-05 08:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rishathra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick a finger up her bum she will do whatever you ask once she gets over the shock
2007-01-05 08:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋