how do you know when your at breaking point. im not going into detail but how do you know when you have had enough?
2007-01-05 00:43:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer to your question: NONE!! you are better of without!!
and how do you know when you had enough: you'll know. it comes from inside you. Just look at your other half and what do you really feel... first reaction?! Then you'll know... if it's good or bad
Good luck
2007-01-05 01:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by alvin34 1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a question like that, you're past the point. Take an objective look at your situation by making a list of all the good points and all the bad points. If the bad list is longer, have a serious talk with your partner and then end the relationship.
2007-01-05 00:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Reo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When all the "Maybe's" and What Ifs" are entirely used up and dont cross your mind anymore. Then you are ready to travel down a different path, but only you can make it happen, just because he shows no respect does not mean you cannot have "Self-Respect" by getting out of the relationship, allowing yourself the happiness you deserve.
2007-01-05 00:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is the normal process of events, using girl meets boy. Obviously it works the other way too.
Girl gets with boy....everythings fine.....girls happy
boy starts taking the pis ......girl feels confused
Boy continues but includes lack of respect for girl
Girl feels hurt
Girl feels angry
Girl starts to question....what the hell???
Boy still continues with bad behaviour
Girl questions when she's at breaking point
Girl takes action & kicks boy to kerb.
Good luck Babe....
2007-01-05 01:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
None. If someone has no resepct for you, that tells all.
Someone once told me that "you are only treated by someone as you allow yourself to be treated". I didnt get that til i was older, but it is true.
Dont let someone treat you with any less respect than you deserve. It can be really hard, but the more you practice that attitude, the easier it becomes, and the more self respect you will feel for yourself.
2007-01-05 00:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by dcrobinson 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know enoughs enough when you come on here to ask complete strangers opinions. Your asking a question you already know the answer to - you just need to have the guts to walk away from it and take a back seat from a relationship thats obviously not making you happy.
good luck - hope your happy again soon.x
2007-01-05 00:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey everyone tells silly wee white lies which is wrong but ok but when your other half has no respect for you its time to move and find soeone that is going to treat you like the princess you deserve to be treated like you shouldnt let anyone bring you down angel especially not your partner they are there to support you and make you feel better bout things good luck honey i hope everything is ok xxx
2007-01-05 00:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by samantha l 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on many factors,but if u feel u r changing or your pride and respect is damaged ,kill the heart and move on,in love we see small and bad things normal ,we only seek the good side ,and slowly slope into the fact we r way out of line and the respect wall is getting cracked.
2007-01-05 00:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetheart...well, sweetheart might be the wrong wording...anyway...you shouldn't let anyone lie to you or treat you like crap, EVEN if you love them. You are a person, you've got feelings. If that guy you're dating can't see that, then he either doesn't love you or doesn't know how to love you without being violent or wrong. He's not right, just take it from him. Put him right and tell him, you're leaving sweety.
2007-01-05 00:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
probably when you have to ask.
i had 3 or 4 terrible relationships before age 20 and they all should have ended earlier!!
i regret not ending them when i saw signs of disrespect, dishonesty, and mental manipulation.
my advice is, you are young, move on, there are good guys out there
2007-01-05 00:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋