my girl friend said she wanted to take a break 3 days ago, and i don't want to. Im trying to work it out with her, but she says she needs her space. its killing me, cause i really want her back, but i don't know how to get her. She also told me that i was annoying.
2007-01-05 00:30:26 · 12 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me perfectly straight with you. there is another man. she may not be sleeping with him or even seeing him yet, but there definitely another man that she is interested in, at the very least. the best thing you can do, as hard as it may be, if you want her back, is to completely ignore her and act like you don't care. pretend to move on. pretend you don't think of her. pretend you don't want her back. when she realizes you aren't up her *ss, and you are not concerned, she will be all over you in a matter of time. tell her you want the break to. tell her good luck. give her a kiss on the cheek and say "later". give her smile and walk away. but you must exude an air of confidence and a lack of caring. Its all good! then stay away! don't call! don't answer if she calls for awhile! trust me. she will be yours again. but is she worth it?
2007-01-05 00:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by beechjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to give the girl a break if you want to have any kind of relationship at all with her ,but , when you do make sure she knows that you are taking one also and that this break might lead you to the Love of Your Life, if she cares about you she will reconsider,if she is just trying to get out of the relationship she will give you the go ahead. If you get the go- ahead then go for it ,find some thing else to ocupy your time ,or she will despise you, make sure you don't try to spy on her she will know it, seriously, get busy with life this will make you more attractive,and could very well lead you to the real Love of Your Life.
2007-01-05 00:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by patricia h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman tells you on the break-up that she needs her space, you can add, "....without you in it". This may not be what you want to hear, but she doesn't want to be with you anymore and she was trying to let you down easy.
If she wants to givew you space, then use it to your advantage. Go out with the fellas and make fools of yourselves. Date other women. Do the things you used to to before you hooked up with your soon to be former girlfriend.
If she doens't want to be with you, it is more her loss and not yours. She proabably found you annoying because you are too nice and wanted to be the best boyfriend a woman can have. Now you can make her regret it by living a happier life than she does.
2007-01-05 00:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her. When a girl says that she needs her space she really means that she wants you to move away and stay away. Having her say you are annoying is also not a good sign. She has probably found a really cool guy to spend her time with whom she does not find annoying.
2007-01-05 00:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you can respect her for being so honest - I should hope everyone could just say what they want. Give the girl her space & while you at it, Say Goodbye - Your lucky she's being polite - so stop stalking her!! She's not into YOU
2007-01-05 00:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lords of Stockton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do what she asked for. If you're going to keep on bugging her she is probably going to think of you as a possessive maniac, and that is only going to push her away.
2007-01-05 00:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by h88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space
2007-01-05 00:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you heard that song, pick up what dignity and self respect you have and get yourself a brand new girl friend
2007-01-05 00:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is gone mate.. You can't rock her boat.. better luck next time
2007-01-05 00:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then give her a space. =)
2007-01-05 00:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by m0cca 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋