If a guy only wants to be with a girl for sex will he cuddle with her afterwards and want to see her again? Does it depend on the guy? Or will a guy most likely say, "ok, thanks" and just talk to a girl here and there? What's everyone's opinon?
2007-01-04 23:25:39 · 25 answers · asked by kkds14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy will do anything he needs to in order to keep that situation going LOL Wouldn't you want your cake and eat it too? The type of guy that would only be with a woman for sex sure would.
2007-01-04 23:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, there's no real clear line between doing it "just for sex" on the one hand, and "something more" on the other. There's a continuum ranging from something completely meaningless, mindless and disrespectful, to the most intense love and devotion - and most relationships fall somewhere within the continuum, not necessarily at the extremes. Sex may play a prominent role, and be one of the top motivators in some relationships - but other factors nearly always come into play, like respect, attraction, appreciation of the other person. It seems that even in a situation where both partners realize that it is not a serious or permanent relationship, and simply want to enjoy the sexual part of it while it lasts, there is still a certain attraction between the two people, and at least some desire to spend time together that goes beyond sex. So yes, there can be cuddling, seeing each other, enjoying each other's company - all the while acknowledging that this is a temporary arrangement, and that sexual aspect is the primary motivator. But it does depend on a situation, and on the people involved.
2007-01-04 23:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one runs the full gambit
there are as many "approaches" to this as there are people
There are those that will do ANYTHING to continue the sex relationship-- if it requires cuddling OR standing on one's head in the middle of traffic !! Many others though will do the deed and walk off quickly--so---here I'm saying it definately depends on the guy !!!
2007-01-04 23:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty sure it will depend on the guy, but I always cuddle up after sex it's just as much a part of the whole experience as the intercourse.
2007-01-04 23:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by donny2knives 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the guy. If he's in it purely for sex, but he's in the mood for it, he may choose to cuddle. Otherwise, he might just do the ok, thanks routine and leave. If the sex is really good, whether he cuddles or not, he might, most likely, be back.
2007-01-04 23:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by foxiee_chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's sexual I dont think he'd cuddle her,coz he could become emotionally attached,I think guys like this look for girls at bars,girls that are easy to get and that they won't have to see or run into again,thus it's called a "one night stand".
whereas if he's interested in the girl,and it's not just sexual,I'm sure he'd cuddle her the night away.
Then again that's just my opinion and what do I know.
have a great day :)
2007-01-04 23:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really, cuddle some but not a lot. The thing is with friends w/benefits. It can destroy a friendship. Usually it turns to something really bad or something really good. People usually will start to develop feelings. Some men will cuddle but he will never be yours.
2007-01-04 23:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy wants just sex and nothing else--well that's what hookers are for. Or maybe they want to check it out first to see if they might want something more than just sex. So if they did like it they'll stick around and cuddle.
2007-01-04 23:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy, some like to cuddle, others don't. You need to follow your instincts on this, if you think you're being used, then you probably are.
2007-01-04 23:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"OK, thanks" is so rude!!! Like the girl is a prostitute or something... doing it only because of him!
I think that if he has any brains and want to have some more sex in the future, he'll cuddle! Plus, if he can stick his **** in a woman why wouldn't he hug her as well?
Sorry sounds a little rude, but that's the way it is.
2007-01-04 23:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by baby2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋