I have a boyfriend.His name Adip.My elder sister who is a student of college 2nd year wants to take my boyfriend.She talked with him in sexy voice and wants to attract him.I can't talk with my BF or sis directly.Plz give me any suggestion.In past,she did this type of things many times.I can't stop her.Then what will I do?
2007-01-04 23:18:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a new boyfriend.
2007-01-04 23:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by GypsyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Something isn't right in your relationship if you can't talk to your boyfriend about the situation. Guess I can't understand your reluctance to talk to your sister about it either. You need to take a stand for yourself, and let her know that this behavior is totally unacceptable! If you're unwilling to do either of the above, then you might as well step aside, and go find someone new. If you find someone new, keep him away from your sister! Good luck!
2007-01-05 07:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with them both. Tell your sister that she shouldn't need to go after her younger sister's bf and is old enough to know better. Say she's acting too easy and will get a bad name for herself. Do your parents or sister's friends know what she's doing? Talk to them. She's acting nasty towards you because you're the youngest and she thinks she can walk over you. You have to speak up for yourself. Good luck
2007-01-05 07:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't talk directly to either, then you're going to have to trust your boyfriend. Or at least give him a chance.
If he goes for your sister then he probably wasn't worth your attention anyway.
Still, the best thing to do would be to talk to your sister. It sounds like she doesn't really want your boy, but wants to compete with you.
2007-01-05 07:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by rikkios 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why can't u talk to your bf or sister directly.u need to talk to your sister and tell her this is not right or why is she doing this especially when this has happen in the past.u cannot keep queit and watch this crap.if u can't do this next time make sure your bf is far away from your sister reach.good luck.
2007-01-05 07:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with your bf is still the key thing. If he finds nothing wrong with ya sis' actions, then maybe he's enjoying the attention. Then, you have to think twice about this bf of yours.
As of your sis, its sickening. Think she need help, professional help. Have you told your sis that her actions is making you uncomfortable?
2007-01-05 07:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be with you, he'll be with you and won't let her flirt with him... the only thing you could do is - try to keep him away from her or just talk and let them both know how you feel!
2007-01-05 07:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister wants to take your bf?
but isnt it for him to decide with whom he wants to be with????
wht i mean is.... be a person in charector stronger than your sister... and let your bf realize u r much better than your sis...
if u cant do this dump him..for sure...
2007-01-05 07:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by sagitarius....25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is not a thing that can be taken or not
it up to him to decide
if you see that he responds positevely to your sisters behaviour then leave him because he doesnt deserve you
if he doesnt respond then let your sister continue humiliating herself
2007-01-05 07:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to talk to your boyfriend,and tell him the situation.If he is sincere to you he will understand.And avoid your sister taking his calls.
2007-01-05 07:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you cannot change your sister. if you trust your boyfriend you should know that he will not be fooled by her attention. if you do not trust him, than find another boyfriend, one whom you can trust and that he will not cheat with your very own sister.
2007-01-05 07:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋