I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago..i met someone new and i began a new relationship.My ex tried to fight for me and stuck around for 4 months untill he decided he was going to move on.I eventually realised that the decision i made was the wrong one and that i took advantage of my ex's love for me.I really want to be back in his life and to do right by him and prove my commitment and love.He's come so far and took the step to move foward and now i'm struggeling so to get him back.I have never been more sure of what i want and i need to know if i should fight for him or stand back and let him be. He also met someone in this time and has decided to make a go of it.He was with someone else while i was gone before but he broke that off because he still loved and wanted me in his life.I'm up against a religion issue too but if you knew what we had, you would understand that we could overcome anything before.I'm lost and do not know if i should accpet things or fight for what i want.
2007-01-04 23:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by Bubbalove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go, please. You do not help yourself with all of this,
2007-01-04 23:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely fight for him.
As it is a religion issue, follow his example and become a suicide bomber, except just blow yourself up. There's no need to involve innocent people.
You will have all the concubines you want in paradise. I know this because Allah tells us in the Koran.
2007-01-05 07:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by feeltherisingbuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for him but don't become pathetic. If he genuinely wants to be with this new person he will respect you much more if you just accept it. Don't beg or anything like that. Let him know exactly how you feel and leave it up to him. Keep your dignity and respect yourself.
2007-01-05 07:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for what you believe in! If you really love him! do everything in your power to get him back. But the decision is up to him wether he wants you back or not.
It may sound crazy but atleast you won't have to spend the rest of your life asking "what if?". Atleast you know you tried.
2007-01-05 07:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by chansey_44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember 1 Thing
If u want something/someone in your life, nobody is going to do it for you and present it to you in a decorated plate.
You will have to fight for your rights or if u want something in life.
We disdain people first but Generally, we realize their worth when they are gone
2007-01-05 07:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fight for him if you really loved him, but in the end if he wants to move on with this new girl there's probley not much you can do about it, just tell him u love him, do something romantic for him.
2007-01-05 07:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you already done enough?
You've admitted playing him and keeping him on a piece of string for when you want him...........he has since made an effort to get on with his life so let him do just that.
Don't make him pay (again) for your mistakes!
2007-01-05 07:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as sure as you say you are about your feelings for your ex,then go for it...fight for him girl! But you should think about your new boyfriend and his new girlfriend....think long and hard...do you really want to break these people's hearts in order for you to get what you want? think carefully about this and then decide...
2007-01-05 07:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by rika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That decision is basically up to your ex boyfriend, it depends on his feelings for you now. Does he want to go back to you??? If it is meant to be then it will be!!!!
2007-01-05 07:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not ... fight for him.
2007-01-05 07:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋