why do females especially single ones like to find married men a challenge?

Question

my husband works as a crowd controller in local hotels. My problem with that, is because he a friendly natured person who speaks to woman with respect they see him as somebody they can try latch onto. They approach him with enthusiasm and overfriendliness just because he has been nice to them and if i happen to be there they ignore me and him until they think i am not around then they will go up too him battering the eyelids ect. They dont care that he is married when they are flirting flat out trying to get his attention. It disgusts me that these woman do this and they never show an interest in the single crowd controllers.
Come in ladies they are there doing a job not for your personal use. That kind of behaviour isnt going to get you in free or cheap drinks so why do it..the guys realy think it is a big joke when woman behave that way they arn't interested in them they arnt even flattered, they get sick of it. And to be honest so am i.

Answer 1

I've asked this question too. One answer is that married men are less likely to have any diseases??? Second answer was it's more of a challenge. Third was if he has a job then he's got money and another one was she liked married men as they were easy prey. Personally I get cheesed off with women like this as well and I'd love to snot them one. My husband did security when he lived in Queensland and he said they would have a good laugh at the sleazy s---s and the things they would try and he agrees that there is no way that they are a turn on. Most real men love women with class and dignity. The biggest laugh I find is that because I am 12 years older than my husband they think they have a better chance but as my hubby says class beats ****

Answer 2

Nothing is impossible with God. It is quite difficult, but if both people are careful, and know their limitations and intentions, it can work. But once again, they must be very careful. Spending a lot of time alone is not good. If they are both single, there is no harm in it if they keep their hands off each other. But you're right. Confiding in each other, sharing their hopes and dreams, fears and joys does create intimacy. It's a situation that has to be handled with extreme caution. If either is married, pursuing a friendship with a member of the opposite sex is asking for serious trouble.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel, my x was the same, and women always responded to him like that, especially when they found out he was married. They were all slappers and not worth worrying about. They see it as challenge to prove to themselves they can do it. Usually they are that drunk the challenge isn't that important, and they give up. They can see your husband is a good catch, so far in their pitiful lives they haven't been able to find anyone close to him and think they can just steal your husband, slappers, that's all. To be pitied.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with your husband, he has a service to perform and keep his clients happy. There is nothing wrong with the other women, they appreciate his service. :You are jealous of your husband because he is having a good time, doing his duty.

Answer 5

But if your husband is loyal and won't ever disrespect you than these girls won't get anywhere with him. If you trust him then you don't really have a problem. I wouldn't worry about it, if you trust him.

Answer 6

hmmm....sounds to me like they bother you....I think they are just flirting and having fun and don't mean anyone any harm.....and news flash...the men are flattered...they just tell their wives differently....

Answer 7

because they can't find their own

thay need to go get fkd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!