The sister of my best friend dates a guy who is not good.he always tells lies, he pretends, he gives her mobile number to other guys, he doesnt respect her,he wants only sex.When they go out he only kisses and touches her and once he took her to his home and touched her under the t shirt all the time.but she is still young (14years) and she cant say NO.I and my best friend always tell her that she shall break up with him and that he isnt good and we have talked with her many times. but she doesnt take us seriously and she is in love with this guy.Besides,he smokes and since she cant say NO we are afraid that she will start smoking too. now we think of doing sth so that they break up but we dont know what.it could be anything cause she is my best friend's sister and i have her like a sister too.so even if she gets mad she will forget it. so, what can we do that they break up?its only for her good!and someday she will be grateful! so can you tell me a good trick or a good way??plz help!
2007-01-04 22:34:13 · 4 answers · asked by memberoftheheaven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I don't approve of doing it the underhanded way of "tricking" her into calling this relationship off.....but I can see your concerns
I feel that 14 is too young to be in a "serious" one on one relationship anyway, where are her parents in all this...do they have open communication with their daughter....if so, they should be the ones setting boundaries for her ...
in the end, probly the most likely factor is going to be that you are there to support her when this relationship crashes and burns...if she's that hell bent to put up with this sort of behavior, no amount of you trying to lead her in the right direction is going to succeed
it does sound sucky......you could always convince her he's a playa........or catch him in the act and "prove it" to her.....but common sense will prevail even if at the moment all seems hopeless......I really do wish you luck and she will be grateful that she has such concerned friends like you........
just love and support her, show her what a real friendship means, even between girls it can greatly affect her growing opinions of ppl and how they impact her personal life...take care~!
2007-01-04 22:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to "roll over" on someone, but this is a job for her parents. Is there some other reason that you apparently have not considered telling them? If so, it doew become more complicated, but there must be a trusted adult who can help you. I don't think your idea of "making her break up" has a chance.
2007-01-04 22:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay huni this is a dangerous relationship he may end up pushing her too far and she could get hurt an adult needs to be brought into the equation one you trust do it fast too!
She is only 14 and not ready for this type of relationship yet!!
2007-01-04 22:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a hater and mind your own business!
2007-01-04 22:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋