how do you tell a guy that he calls too much and you dont really like him without hurting his feelings?
2007-01-04 22:25:11 · 17 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy only met me because he came to my job and saw me there, and since then he been calling and texting non stop. he waits at my job just to see if maybe ill come in. hes always asking people about me. we dont even know each other. ive never given him any hint that i like him. im only 19 and hes 27.
2007-01-04 22:48:55 · update #1
You can't Sami ... but the longer you leave it the worse it will become
You have to be cruel to be kind .... try to let him down easy ... but be strong and firm ...it's the only way
Good Luck :)
2007-01-04 22:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there's No easy way out of telling someone you don't feel the same way you do. But if he or she is your friend be honest and tell them the truth. And who knows may grow closer in time. But as far as the around the clock phone calls ask them to call during certain hours of the day unless you say otherwise.
2007-01-05 06:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by babiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your into a different guy and your not up for a relationship. Maybe refer to him as your friend just say i'm speaking with my friend hold on, as if your talking to another person that wants you off the phone. He might get the hint. If he aks why you called him just your friend say well your my friend thats it.
2007-01-05 06:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel. one way or the other ur gonna end up telling him. tell hi he's to old 4 u and u already have a man. or at least pretend u r going out w/ one of ur boyz. hey I've done it a million x. the sooner the better
2007-01-07 08:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest . Most guys don't get mild hints. You have to lay it out to him by telling him you dont think of him the what he thinks of you . You are flattered but you are not interested.
2007-01-05 06:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Donna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he next calls you, start talking of some new guy that you've just met who has asked you out, how gorgeous he is, how much you have in common etc.........He may get the picture.
2007-01-05 06:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad I know but I always fall back on this;
"You know your a great guy and I enjoy your company, Im just really flat out and I don't want you to waste your time"
2007-01-05 06:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
there no hurt free way of tell someone to get lost and i dn't like u.
the best way is to sit him down or call him, and say soz but would u mind if u stop callin me as i dn't like u i hope I've not hurt ur feelin to much. or somthin like.
2007-01-05 06:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by charlottebrack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no real way to not hurt someone when you are rejecting them.
If you simply don't respond, he may get the picture.
But you may have to drop the bomb on him.
Whatever you do, don't give him false hope.
Or you'll never get rid of him.
2007-01-05 06:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can let him understand that you need some personal space and you aren't exactly the whole chit-chat on the phone kind of gal. and hopes he understand
2007-01-05 06:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋