She had stunning long curly hair, and said she was thinking about getting it really short and straight, i told her that when i had seen her with straight hair i had always preferred her with curls, and i dont find short hair attractive on women.
She went and had it done anyway and when she asked if i liked it and i said the front was ok but the back wasn`t great she flipped, should i just lie? and say i love it in future for an easy life?
2007-01-04 21:59:04 · 41 answers · asked by lee f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-04 22:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having always had long hair myself, I can see why she flipped, it's a big deal for her to make such a drastic change. But hair will grow back, so don't worry about it. I think in this case you can tell a little white lie ...
Stunning long curly hair, eh? How nice, I'd have loved curly hair, my own is long and naturally wavy. But I suppose we all like a change ...
2007-01-04 22:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, girls love prays to how nice they look, and good things about them. That is one thing you need to alway remember. So tell them something straight forward usually doesn't work very well, try sugar coating them. and try to say something like, "it looks nice, etc. But I think will be better if (fill in your opinion here and give the reason why), but it still looks good what you have done." Well, if you do not have time, then just say it looks very nice. They will always love it.
2007-01-04 22:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.... she knew how u felt about it and got it done anyway, she can't expect u to change ur opinion overnight. Maybe u should only focus on the bits u like, or thought were ok, and not say anything bout the bits u didn't like.
2007-01-04 22:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, keep it real.
She asked your opinion but really didn't care about your opinion. She knew she was going to change the style regardless of what you said.
BTW, She just wanted an excuse to flip out on you -- expect another episode shortly ....
2007-01-04 22:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - we do get a shock when a guy gives us a negative answer - but if she asked you - you were more than within your right to be honest!
She may have just been a bit hurt - we all love getting compliments when we try something new - give her a day or two and she'll come crawling! xx
2007-01-04 22:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said "I like the front," and left it at that.
My boyfriends response in situations like this is usually "Wow, it's a big change, but I bet once I get used to it I'll like it," or sometimes, when he is into the little white lie "I like it both ways."
2007-01-04 22:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by M.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think no need to lie, u should be free in ur relation ship to convey ur feeelings , she must under stand also but now just to deal with the situation tell her u love her and extra what ever u like to say adn along this tell her also that u r straight forward nature so in future dont get angry please.
2007-01-04 22:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gf sounds a lyk a bit of a hipercrite honestly. she asks u ur opionion about somethin, does wants she wants anyway and then complains later tht u dont share the same opinion. wth? wat is the point in lyin obviously ur opinion doesnt matter 2 her if she was a half decent gf she wuldnt of done wat she did. its up2 u 2 make a decision now about whethr or not u think its a good idea 2 continue this relationship. if she does it again she shuld b dumpd!
2007-01-04 22:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ lexi ♥™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose its a hard situation for a bloke to b in, u dnt want to lie n u dnt want to hurt her feelings. at the end of the day she asked u for your opinion n she sud of repected that n not go mad, at least u was honest. but mayb next time a little white lie wont hurt xx
2007-01-04 22:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that someone's hair shouldn't change the way you feel about someone, but if you don't like it...I'd be honest with her. Even if she doesn't like you're reaction to her new haircut...she'll probably take your advice and go back to the way it was originally.
2007-01-04 23:21:03 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋