my boyfriend finishes way to soon during sexual intercourse he has no problem getting erect but he can't stop him self from doing well you know and i am getting very frustrated cause i would like a bit more time is this medical or what
2007-01-04 21:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by minnesotanicegurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my boyfriend is not a young guy he is in his early 40's and he can not stop him self from c***ing it's really strange to me
2007-01-04 22:37:47 · update #1
There are several methods that you can use to prolong the ejaculation process. Consult a doctor, go to a reputable book store and even search the web for information on premature ejaculation. Be patient, and what ever you do--don't belittle him or make him feel shamed about it--the male ego is very fragile when it comes to bedroom antics--communicate with him, let him you want it long and slow. Tell him to stop before he ejaculates and focus more on foreplay to enhance your sexual experience. He needs to be "trained" to not ejaculate until you have been satisfied--and yes it is up to you to do the training--but if you want a fulfilled sexual life--it is worth the effort!!!
2007-01-04 21:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. talk to him about your needs. what some people do is the man first excites the girl (orally, kissing, whatever turns you on) to a point that when they have intercourse, they both finish together and are happy.
ask what could be done to excite both your needs to a full extent
2007-01-05 05:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young and Not enough sex yet. Give it to him every day for about 5 years and he will do better. Meanwhile, have him make you *** with oral and fingers before he starts to $crew you. Best that way anyhow.
Good luck
2007-01-05 05:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is immaturity and lack of self control. It takes age and self discipline to improve.
2007-01-05 05:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of experience and nothing else. I can let you know in detail if you want to, what all you can do to make him stay longer. But i teach only practically dear !
2007-01-05 05:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Varun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that you turn him on SOOOOOOO much, thats why he comes fast!
2007-01-05 06:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a cock ring
2007-01-05 06:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by allthrottlenobottle2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋