So i met this girl at an event like 8 hrs away from home and we got chatting over the few days of the event and found out she lived near me, so i asked her if she wanted a lift home. She said ok, so i drove her home and we chatted, laughed and stuff the whole way, then b4 i dropped her off, i asked her if she'd like to catch up sometime for coffee, and she claimed she was sorta seeing this dude and left it at that. occasional over the next 6 months we'd sms each other, but never really said much, just hey how you doin. Then she was coming up to an event near my house and i said i had a bed if she needed 1 4 the night. She did and we end up in the sac. then we saw each other every second day for a week and being intimate. Then she went away 4 3 months and we stayed in touch with emails and stuff. Now shes back and weve seen each other a few time, went for walks on the beach and stuff, watched movies. But she has never seemed like she was up for any contact or anything. What should i do.
2007-01-04 21:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by plzsome1helpme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sees you as her best guy friend (with benefits). Why are you wanting to mess up a great relationship?
2007-01-04 21:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting time. Let her know how you feel and see how she responds. If it is not just what you want to hear ... move on.
It sounds that she MAY like you but she is not INTO you --- you were just somebody for her to do.
A little advice: Friends first (for awhile) then tiptoe into intimacy
2007-01-04 21:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by YaYa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like just having a fling with her then carry on but I do not think you will ever have a trusting relaitonship?
2007-01-04 21:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a fling, but have to ask, where and when did you all hook up to think that it is real now,babe?
2007-01-04 21:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fling... but u will only know that if u'll take it a step further and ask for commitment or exclusivity..if she says no or even hesitates, then ur fears are answered
2007-01-04 21:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by msweets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she dont loves u but likes u and now u had to change this like into love.ok
2007-01-04 21:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry 4 u.dat girl is such a ******* ***** looser,daughter of a hoe ************. Don give a damn ******* risk goin' 4 her!
2007-01-04 21:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
totally a fling.
2007-01-04 21:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Wanna get drunk? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a break. she just like you
2007-01-04 21:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋