I was raised from a poor family and i now make a good income for my age(19) so i feel insecure with golddiggers because i work hard for that shy*t. I notice all girls arent interest in me right of the bat, i feel some how they like me when they know what im made of(money). Is my feeling right or its just my insecurity and girls are shy in the beginning
2007-01-04 21:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by Realdeal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are a person who focuses on money a lot, you will be surrounded by others who do also. If money is something that is very important to you, you talk about it, think about it, make it a major part of your existence and lifestyle, then you will find others who are this way inclined. Some that you meet will be like you and make money themselves, others will be the type to chase your kind.
People who don't revolve their life around money or make it their main focus, will meet others that think the same.
2007-01-04 21:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you meet a girl don't spend lots of money on her. Maybe the problem is as you said yourself you think all you're made of is money. If you have more to offer a girl show it. Here's a little trick. take a girl out on a date. Before you get to where ever you're going stop and ask her if you can barrow $5 until you get to the ATM. If she doesn't have any money on her it's very likely she will always look for you to pay her way and that's not a good relationship. Not to mention a smart woman never goes anywhere with a stranger without money of her own.
2007-01-05 05:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Body language man , body language. Above all what a person says, her gesture, her facial expressions and the way she is behaving notice all these things and you will get your answer. If necessary you can also put some test like what she would like to buy or something like that and see how she grabs that opportunity. Hope you got your answer. All the best.
2007-01-05 05:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm 30 yrs old female, and i can say that lets say i really have bad luck in life. i fell inlove with this man not bec. he's always there for me when i need help. he always help me when it comes to money. i love this guy with all my heart not bec of his money! there are times when he send money to me im having hard time seeing him. and i didnt like that. i told him i rather see him than to have his money... coz i am not happy with the money i'm happy when i'm with him... I REALLY TRUE LOVE THIS GUY! WISH i could say I LOVE YOU ( sorry i cant say his name here he's married) OUCH!!!
2007-01-05 05:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by the choosen1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
when they say boo hoo it's for your money most women like a decent caring guy and will say so
2007-01-05 06:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
see if she dont demand more from u and in place of it always wants to be with u no one else
2007-01-05 05:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nowadays, you don't get crap if you don't have money even if you are good looking. So girls are definitely into nice cars, nice apartments and bling,bling. So if you have them, flaunt them!
2007-01-05 05:22:59 · answer #7 · answered by babushcat 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop paying for stuff and see if they still like you.
2007-01-05 05:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just dont say wat sort of job u hav if ur tht worried about it say u hav an average job and if their after u 4 money tht shuld definitely turn them off
2007-01-05 05:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ lexi ♥™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋