my problem is i knw i dont wanna marry him but i also cant let him go.besides me n his wife he hs got other girls but knws am his priority.i have a bf who is outside my country so this man keeps me company.we fight alot but i love bein around him.he does everythn for me.i wanna leave him but i cant.pls advice me.
2007-01-04 20:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by dorothony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just start to think of it as one big disease he's got going on because if he's got that many women when is his luck gonna run out and you could end up with something and obviously he doesn't respect women because he's doing this and has kids at home and God only knows what he may take back to his wife that he didn't leave with. And besides if you were married would you want someone doing that to you i really think not.
2007-01-04 20:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your question? I hope you know you can't be in a relationship with someone that has many others. You are not a priority to him by any means. I think you have a thing for men that you can't commit to. You have this married man that will never be your's or anyone's and a long distance relationship. I think you should find out what it is you want for yourself and go get it. Make sure it can be your's to have first.
2007-01-05 04:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by quel772o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're a unique woman...most women couldn't tolerate being the best of many that this guy has. Don't you feel disrespected because he has other women? I can bet you that he tells every other woman that she's his priority too! Basically, he's playing you and you're following him WAY too easily. If you love him and don't mind disrespect, have fun!
but if you want to be a woman who's respected, then find a guy who isn't a jerk. After all, if he has 3 kids, don't you think he's a jerk to be cheating on their mother with lots of other women?
then again, bad judgement doesn't hurt some women, so i guess you can keep screwing up your life.
to stop screwing it up, block yourself off completely from him and start enjoying time with friends (women), interests (hobbies, investments), and overall having a good time. When you're happy, you won't even think about him and the better guys (who are single and respectful) will be attracted to you.
p.s. your boyfriend deserves some1 better than you, a woman who won't cheat on him when he's away.
2007-01-05 04:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jewels232 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a life. u r being selfish. if u r not in the pic., he might still have time for his kids. try to put others in this scenario. not just u n him. anyway, u have boyfriend, so stick with him or find others which is not a married man. trust me, it will be a better world for you and others.
2007-01-05 05:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have already made up your mind to keep this "no win" situation. But if it's working for you, then do what you need to do. But you DO have to realize he's a DOG and you are not as special as you think you are. Also, what about how this affects your own self-esteem, and how it might affect his family. (He obviously isn't concerned about them OR you).
Good luck, but I would recommend that you stop all this drama !!
2007-01-05 04:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweety, you got him by the balls !!
if he loves you, tells you, shows you, milk him for all you can !!!
you just have to be "nice"
guys are suckers.
you go girl!!!
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2007-01-05 04:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Deprie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋