i'm really happy with my boyfriend, and i really love him. thing is he has a dog one of those little white ones bischon frise. i swear she hates me! she pushes my hand away when i cuddle him he doesn't notice but it really upsets me. i feel like i'm second best to a dog! he brings it everywhere with him and it's really starting to bug me. Help!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 20:41:19 · 19 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
~Yo, toots, if this is your biggest concern in life, you ought to hook up with Paris Hilton. Jealous of a dog? Get a life.
2007-01-04 20:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him sweetie or make friends with his dog they do get jealous and the dog might see you as a threat ,try and let it see that you love it too ,and you woll be fine but as far as the dog is concerned its his boyfriend or master and he should be the only one getting close and remember the dog dont really know what you are doing but you do need to mention this to the boyfriend and ask him to help you get the dog to like you ,after all its his dog he will know his dog better than anyone else ,,,,,the dog loves this boy as much if not more than you ever will ,if your boyfriend was to jar you off you wouldnt talk to him for a few days or you would argue with him the dog on the other hand just forgive him everything and will still cuddle up to him they are so devoted an animal,its only its nature ,but with love and understanding you can get this dog to love you just as much ,,,,alwayd fuss the dog before your boyfriend and it will soon start to soften to you and see you as less of a threat ,,i hope this helps you ,,,,love the dog and wim the boyfriend ,after all you say he takes it everywhere with him ,,,that shows you how much he loves the dog ,,,put it this way if someone i was dating didnt like my kids then i wouldnt date them anymore,,,,love your boyfriends dog and you wil win both their hearts ,,,,good luck
2007-01-05 04:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son has a dog and she always comes before any girl in his life. Like your boyfriend he akes her everywhere. He took a girl to London one year to buy her a burberry bag. They spent all day shopping and came back not with the bag but a burberry collar and lead for his dog. She is a rottie x gt dane so a bit bigger than yours. I cant see anyone coming between them. Good luck though. Maybe you could get your own dog. Dont ask him to choose between you though. I think you might be dissapointed
2007-01-05 04:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Miss RoZy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making a fuss of the bichon frise they love a lot of attention i have got 3 and i breed them and they are a lovely pet also why don't you try and make friends with the dog instead of acting like a little spoilt child
2007-01-07 18:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? Jealous of a dog? I can understand the dog being jealous, after all he was her's first. You are the outsider, not her. Your best bet is to make friends with the dog.
2007-01-05 05:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Stick to Pet Rocks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're gonna stick around, you gotta demote her. See, to her, she's his number one gal; your bottom of the totem pole. Let him know ahead of time what you're doing, and them take your rightful place. Its a pack mentality, everyone has a place in the hierarchy, and shes just letting you know where yours is. Now, return the favor. Remember, you are the human, his mate, and above all, a lot bigger and louder. Get primal with it, give it a couple weeks, and shell be your new buddy. Don't push her out all together, just give her a new job: the couple's dog.
2007-01-05 04:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
honey, it's just a dog..
you no need to compare yourself with a dog..
maybe it's expensive or it was given to him, that's why he cared f it so much..
i can see that "the dog" brings a gap and a line between you too..
wait, who he really loves anyway?
you? or his pet?
don't worry dear, you're no match to a dog. sure there's a reason. maybe, askin him will help you
solve your problem.
:)
2007-01-05 04:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by -yana- - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be generous, they are only pets, smart pets, know to get jealous, you should love them too,, Love him love his dogs - and then everything will be all right, and you will have fun with his dogs - dogs will give you unconditional love and they will protect you
2007-01-05 04:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel about the dog and all that just try to do it in a calm voice so he doesn't think that your getting mad at him but it bothers you that the dog is doing it.
2007-01-05 04:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by chongo89478 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you no the saying "love me love my dog", don't try to come between them, you'll only lose, try and make friends with the dog instead, n ur bf will love u more 4 it.
2007-01-05 04:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by nosy old lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋