what would you do if everyone in your family tells you that they dont like your boyfriend....
but i love my bf so much, im confused if i were to choose my parents or him?
2007-01-04 20:40:45 · 6 answers · asked by khatz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that it hurts...however if your boyfriend was the one for you, then I would not throw it away just because of your parents. n
2007-01-04 20:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your parents who will marry and live with your bf. Don't be discouraged if they don't like him. But be objective in analyzing his characteristics. I'm sure there are reasons why your family don't like him. Is he lazy? Does he has stable job? Does he know how to respect your parents? Can he give you a decent house or life when you marry him? Ask yourself of things like that and compare it with his positive characteristics. Then if his negative is lesser than his positive, then you can go on with your relationship with him and never mind your relatives' opinion. Or maybe you are still too young to be involved in a serious relationship that is why you are being warned by them. Just don't jump into conclusions, be analytical.
2007-01-05 04:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your family like your boyfriend? A lot of times love "blinds" us and we don't see things that others see. And, while you may see it as your family being mean, they may see it as them protecting you from him.
For all I know, your boyfriend could be the greatest guy in the world and your family could be jerks. But, you need to know the honest reason why your family does not like your boyfriend before you make your choice.
2007-01-05 04:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your family. Unless they are being prejudice based on religion or race, they are probably looking out for your interest. I'm in the same spot and it is the toughest decision I have ever had to make, but I know that my family is right.
2007-01-05 04:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by moonman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not gonna tell you what you should do ok. but ive been there and done that & i just have a little advice, your'e family & friends aren't out to get you. they are there to protect you, so listen to what they have to say because if you don't you might regret it later on. just like so many of us.
Please don't be offended by what ive said i don't know you're boyf nor do i know your famile i'm just lettin you know through my experience.
2007-01-05 04:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur parents
2007-01-05 04:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋