i am recently employed in a compony where i am just only more than a month now.. since i had been employed there is this employee which i think hates me? i dnt know if "hate" is the right word which i should use. since she asks my age and knew that where the same age and the youngest of the employees everything i do would have a comment to her or is a big deal which in my part really tearing me apart. once i use a chinese colar blouse then she said laughing pinpointing me which she thought i didnt hear, "lady guard haha!!" (because of the chinese colar)i just didnt said anything but ofcourse i was annoyed, what a disrespect and insult to me right? even anyone would be annoyed as days passes i begun to learn how to defend myself ofcourse i would esp. if i know i had a point..and when i was assigned to a new table apart from her, i begun to have a peace in mind and self confidence that im not that person that could just be insulted and just keep quiet and its okay... but 2day i realized
2007-01-04 20:28:08 · 4 answers · asked by confused_lady 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
they're insecure, and she sounds like a prime example of that. She feels terribly insecure now that you're around, and so she "tries to be taller by cutting off the heads of others", namely you. You could try approaching her about it, but don't do it publicly, because that'll just cause more hell. Good luck, that's a tough situation
2007-01-04 20:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to be thought of as the underdog and she is making sure that she is seen as higher in the food chain than you.
These people rarely get very far as others see them for what they really are.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 01:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bladerunner (Dave) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better ignore them; it is not easy but it is the right way.
Nobody can judge fairly, therefore Gof forbids it.
Just think and act as your reason tells you; criticism will cease when people realize that their words fly into the air with no effects.
2007-01-04 21:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just they are not contented with their position. take a smile and leave. or else u loose ur cheer.
2007-01-04 20:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by madhu1187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋