i like this guy n we have bin friends 4 a while, shood i tell him that i like him? or shood i juss leave it how it is now, friends. he asked me out a few months ago n i said no cuz i wasnt ready 2 b with him...but now i am...
2007-01-04 20:20:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him. "Hey buddy, is your offer a few months ago still up for grabs?" ;)
2007-01-04 20:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!! Love is such a wonderful thing. It gives us wings to fly, we feel like we are floating at times. I would continue to be friends with him, enjoy your time when you are with him. Be relaxed, yourself.That is who he asked out, you. You have no need to get nervous now. It is Ok that you told him no to go out with him when he asked you a few months ago, it is only when we are ready that we should go out with someone new, no matter what. If you don't feel prepared, no no no, but now you want to go out with him , how exciting. I would just go up to him one day as we are talking and having a good time with each others company and very naturally say ( in your own words ) how you would love to take up the offer he made to you some time ago, or maybe even suggest you guys go do something together during the weekend, go to a park and have a picnic, go to the movies, take a walk, start walking or do excersice together. Maybe even take a class together, pottery, writing class, cooking class, yoga, ect...
He should already be feeling this attraction , we give out a certain energy when we like someone, it is a automatic thing. We even feel a burst of energy around this person that is the object of our affection. Just be yourself, enjoy life to its uttermost, be happy to be alive and in his company, he will pick that up, and if it is meant to be it will be. Leave it in the hands of the lord, do not stress. Be happy , be positive, be free, not chained to fears of what ifs. Guess what, nothing is a loss in this world, not matter what every experience is a building block of experience that allows us to grow, mature, and walk this journey we call life.
May you find peace within your search, may words be as natural as your breathing when you speak to him, may you be filled with the love and joy of life.
Love light and peace always
2007-01-04 20:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your feeling towards him. Or just ask him out for dinner then tell him what you feel and want the relationship to be on the next level. Good luck
2007-01-04 20:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him. Take a risk or you'll regret not saying anything when it is too late and he has moved on. At least if you ask and he says no....then you know you tried...no regrets.
Good Luck!!
2007-01-04 20:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out - if he was to get with someone else now and never leave them u will never know what could have been.
2007-01-04 20:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by jamincoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you like him, then give it a go.
2007-01-04 20:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by just my opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. if he asked you out before.. then ask him!! theres nothin stopping you go for it :)
2007-01-04 20:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not
2007-01-04 20:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋