Should I abort my child?

Question

i hv been married for last one year. In the month of may 2006 i concieve first time.then my husband and i decided to abort the child becoz we live alone in the city n our parants lives in the another city.we are struggling for our future. we cant afford child right now..after that i concieved for 2 times.and again we aborted the child.once bye operation and two times by tablets.Now again i m pregnent.we are not strong enought to abort our child this time as well as we cant afford child right now.we want to give a bright future for our child but right now we are not in the position to afford a child.
please give me right advice should i abort my child or not?and will it effect on my health?
thnx
Parinita

for the first time when we aborted our child, we felt very pain.it was not so easy.second and third time we want to keep the baby but when i went to doctor,she examined me n told me that i m having internal bleeding which is not safe for baby.she told me there are very few chances to save the baby.thats why we went to abort the baby.
You dont feel how much pain we felt as a parents.i luv children very much.it was not so easy to abort the child.

Answer 1

www.plannedparenthood.org - they can give you the advice and birth control you need.

Answer 2

Do you have a real heart or a Plastic one.

No, Parinita, Not at all. Please don't go for abortion, instead go for adoption. You are saying that you want to give your child a bright future. For that you have already taken 3 lifes and now you are planning for 4th.

this is really ridiculous. I felt so bad that i cant explain it to you. this you are asking on internet but if you asked the same from me personally, then my answer would be :
1. 10 Slaps
2. 1000 Condoms or any other birth control you prefer
and lastly i would take you to the doctor for your registration.

Please This time go for adoption. I dont know you neither i am aware of your situation after that also i am telling you for for adoption. Money doesnt makes big difference.

Answer 3

Instead of killing children-go to the store and buy a box of condoms. I don't mean to sound nasty but, your question just rubbed me the wrong way. I am sure condoms cost less than the morning after pill. You could also use foams, and suppositories too.Too many abortions may cause you to be infertile, so someday when you do want a child you wont be able to have one. Go to Planned Parenthood and they can help you with birth control. I think you should give your baby up for adoption so he or she will have a chance at a good life. Don't have another abortion.

Answer 4

I am wondering why you don't have a birth control method of some type? The pill works great and the shot even better, but still just as effective and cheaper is the condom.... As far as effects on your health physically I don't know, but mentally it must be very damaging. I understand that you financially can't afford a child, but its not an excuse to abort. There is help our there, organizations that you can turn to for support. Don't use the money thing as a reason to terminate a life because if you really want to, you can find a way to afford a child. Check out Adoption.com They have a chat room with others in your situation and have lots of good information and advice.

Answer 5

i am not necessarily against abortion, but i have two problems with your question. as asked above, i do not understand why you are not using effective birth control. you can afford a computer and the internet, but not birth control, which costs about the same per month as internet service. four abortions in one year can definitely affect your health, as well as your ability to conceive children in the future.

my second problem is why in god's name would you ask this question on the internet? there is not one person here who knows enough about your situation to be able to give you an intelligent, reasonable answer. i believe that abortion should be legal, but i can't tell you whether you should have one. you must make this decision, either alone, or with the help of friends and family you trust. ultimately, you will bear the consequences of your decision, either way. good luck.

Answer 6

I don't understand this if you all had the money to pay for abortions then why not have the money to buy birth control pills and condoms?

It is up to you to have an abortion. But if this will make 3 abortions for you maybe you just don't want kids and should go ahead and get your tubes tied or get your husband fixed.

Answer 7

Have you heard of condoms or do you use abortion as a form of contraception. Either way is this something you want to be asking complete strangers like me?? Go to your doctors and get some condoms so that you wont conceive again until you are both ready. You need to get help to sort your head out.

Answer 8

Why do you just keep getting pregnant if you are just going to kill them? Havn't you heard of contraception? If you have another abortion ask the doctor to advise you on birth control because you are obviously a little unfamiliar with this invention.

Answer 9

I wouldent but it depends on the circumstances. If you abort you may finde it dificult to get pregnant in the future

Answer 10

My God, we all struggle, but as everyone else has said, use birth control. Do not use abortion as a form of it. You cannot keep aborting and it not do some sort of damage to your uterus and insides. Please consider other birth control options.

Answer 11

how can you live with yourself and all these abortions? get on birth control pills asap and try to be a responsible adult. what you are doing is really quite awful!