Its a bad and sad situation to be in. To want smeone who is already taken. Because when you are infatuated or are inlove you crave reciprocation and the lack of it hurts.
Its happened to me twice before. Of course I was very careful both times not to let the object of my afection know of my feelings. I never called him or let him know in any way that I think the world of him.
But it hurt so much!
2007-01-04 19:00:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know how it happened and I dont know why... I only know that i never wanted it to happen. Feelings are not sin. They are what makes us humans. It is a sin if you let them take over when they must not.... And even if they are and I will burn in Hell, i really do not care.
I am in love with my best friend's girl...
Love, though, is so small a word to define it...
She is the dream I never dared to dream of, in fear of it not coming to be real...
But he is my best friend...
It hurts...
Yet another word so small to define it...
They had a fight the other day and i was there... I put some good music and talked them out of it... I left the house while they were cuddling on the couch...
I felt so alive when my friend said thank you...
But somehow I feel dead...
2007-01-04 19:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not healthy and is not love, it is infatuation and likely preventing you from having a real relationship with a real guy that will truly love and appreciate you. A wild guess for the reason would be you had an absent or emotionally absent father in your life and you are still seeking out relationships that will only hurt you in the end because you do not feel worthy.
Honey, you are worthy. God does not make junk and you deserve better!
2007-01-04 19:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time. And it's usually a really sweet girl who's in a bad relationship with a "bad boy" that she's hoping will change. I'm a nice guy who never gets the cool cute girls because they're always attracted to the guys who use and abuse them, for some reason. Why is that?
2007-01-04 19:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't say I fell in love but I started liking a guy who was 22 years senior to me. He was married and had kids. He also got attracted towards me and we used to enjoy each others philosophical views and company. However better senses prevailed and we decided to move on as our relationship would have spoiled his family life.
2016-05-23 05:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend fell in love with a engaged man and they had a relationship for a year before anyone knew, after the guys girlfriend found he ended with my friend and it was hard. My friend really thought the guy would leave his girlfriend but I knew that he wouldnt leave a girl he was gonna marry and had been with for 7 years. My friend has still not got over this guy and it has been 3 years. She still cries alot. Dont ever get into a relationship with someone who is taken because you will get your heart broke.
2007-01-04 19:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by nashvillekat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! i experienced to fall in love with someone who is already in a relationship.
its hurts my feeling you know.sometimes i asked my self why people fall inlove in a wrong way.as youcan see we are the same o your problem..
thats part of our life..to be hurt by someone ..but i want to find abetter person who wll love me.
i just wait for her.because i am now scared to hurt..i will wait a couple s of year to hide the pain..if i ever fall inlove with someone in a relationship.. its not easy.to be hurt am i right?
2007-01-04 19:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by micca_jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap. i fell in love with my best friend's girl. ever seen jesse mccartney's "just so you know" video? i was literally the character jesse mccartney was playing. but of course i didn't steal my best friend's girl. i moved to another state, partly to forget her and find myself a new love and partly because i wanted to study at a university there.
it did hurt..the feeling of not being able to tell her how much i love her.
2007-01-04 19:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont feel bad about it,you hav'nt done anything wrong.attracting to one who already is in the relationship is ok.the point is who should'nt be the person to affect their relationship.be a friend,after all being a friends is'nt bad.if it is'nt too hard !!,then may be try to make their relationship stronger,if thats the god will.trust me ,we are all favourites,,,,our time will come soon.
its life !!& worth enjoying,ceeya !!
2007-01-04 19:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup..i did.. once..
it hurts so much as if something was eating me from inside.
i just feel like he is the one for me..
I tried to stop thinking abt him, to hate him.. but i juz can't.
guess it was never meant to be...so i have to set him free...
2007-01-04 19:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess i have and yess it really is.... doesn't it just really hurt to see that one person with sumone else? like everytime u see him/her with another person, u feel like your just not good enough for anyone in the world? well thats life for you hun, its never fair...
2007-01-04 19:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Hillary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋