to talk to her...didnt know what exactly to say and she finally left without me making the first move.....for girls out there...i need your help...what do you think is the best FIRST words you ought to say to a girl in a pub if i want to start a conversation with her ?
2007-01-04 18:35:46 · 12 answers · asked by CAMPINAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Hi, how are you? I'm so-and-so. What's your name?"
That is the only pickup line you need.
And have to courage to approach her. If you get rejected, move on. Dating is a numbers game, the more you try, the better your odds.
2007-01-04 18:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look - I am a very good looking girl too and it really irritates me when guys stare in pubs. If u want to talk to me then have the guts to walk right up and talk !!! If I think u are arrogant and don't want to talk to u then u will soon know about it. The only way u will get to see if a girl is as good inside as she seems to be on the outside is to start talking to her about normal everyday things. And lets face it - a good looking face is absolutely no good if she can't hold a decent conversation. People should really stop putting so much emphasis on looks and get to know people inside first.
lmao at DJ
2007-01-04 18:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon definatly no cheesy pick up line see the catch is, is that girls see through them. So it actually makes them look silly. My advise is to just be your self and just say " Hello my name is so & so, may i ask your name? with a nice smile she'll like a nice smile. And just be yourself , shake her hand and be polite ladys love guys who show respect for a woman and treat her like a princess im sure that whatever you do next time will impress her .
Just enjoy the night with her and be yourself.
All the best xox
2007-01-04 18:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly undesirable mistake. i think of you're deluding your self through asserting you used the %. of smeone who "sounds such as you somewhat" with the aid of fact if it gave the effect of you, why no longer in basic terms use your individual photos? I see fakes each and all of the time with photos from 3 distinctive human beings and that they suspect they are the right same individual while to others it somewhat is obtrusive that they don't seem to be. i assume all you're able to do is be elementary or flow on. :(
2016-11-26 20:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by donenfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, and the best approach is to be confident and just go up to them and say hello. Also make a reference to something they are wearing or something in the enviroment. That should strike up a conversation and away you go.
2007-01-04 18:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by millerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go to bars much, but it seems to me (as a girl) that one of the easiest ways to talk to a girl is to offer to buy her a drink. If she's not interested, she can say "no thanks", and no harm no foul. If she is, she'll say "thanks", and you can go on from there. If you're too shy, you can even order it from across the room, and if she thinks you're cute maybe she'll come over and thank you.
Best of luck, buddy! :)
2007-01-04 18:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just grow a pair of balls and talk to her. Just ask her a question like what she thinks about why all British girls are ugly.
2007-01-04 18:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by DJ Deep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say hi and tell him/her your name.
2007-01-04 18:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, I'm LOST too. Go up to her and give her a HIGH FIVE!
2007-01-04 18:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kudos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HI...with a big smile
2007-01-04 18:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by nirvana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋