my best friend has this boyfriend and he is (i just found out is cheating on her for this slut, which was her old best friend.) i want to tell her but i dont want to be the one who give her the bad news.and if i dont tell her and she finds out shill kill me!what do i do or how do i say it. help
2007-01-04 18:18:02 · 14 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about it....she is your best friend, do you really want her going out with a loser that is cheating on her? Also, if you had a bf that your friend knew was cheating, would you want her to tell you? Yeah she may get angry with you at first, but in the long run she will forgive you and realise what a great thing you did for her.
2007-01-04 18:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day when u and ur friend are along and having girl talk. Ask her if she would tell u if she would tell u if ur boyfriend was cheating on u. Then ask her if she would want u to tell her if her boyfriend was cheating on her. If she says yes then as a friend u are obliged to tell her. If she is a good friend she may be hurt but she would appreciate you greatly.
2007-01-04 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by curiouslover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a way, try to set it up so that she catches him herself. If not, you are going to have to be the barer of bad news. I'm sure she would actually thank you for the information. Just think of how she'd be if she did find out and also found out that you knew and didn't tell her? I sure would want to know if my man was cheating!
2007-01-04 18:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by oneinamillion2185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there you do not tell her anything yet ....but use youre head ....get a hold of the b/f and tell him straight that you have just found out and give him holly hell regarding this ......and see what his reaction is on this .......then if push comes to shove you will have to tell her she will fall out with you but only for a short time ....as you are a real friend to this girl .....she will need a cuddle to help get over this .....good luck .....and take care xx
2007-01-04 18:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't tell her you are REALLY not a good friend of hers. When she finds out she will dump you as a friend and will never want to be your close friend again. You obviously REALLY don't care about her feelings.
Love Amie A
2007-01-04 18:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know this is hard but you gotta give her the news and first, i would talk to the boyfriend to tell him to tell ur best friend or tell her when you guys are hanging out or just shopping and just get in to the topic. wish u good luck! i hope your best friend dumps that little jerk.
2007-01-04 18:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by figureskater&awsome! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? Is cruch a be conscious? your overwhelm you recommend? that sucks. in case you recommend overwhelm, then be able to be beaten. it truly is why they call them crushes. locate somebody else to drool over. that stuff passes straight away b/c it ain't love.
2016-12-01 20:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by sobczak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her this is what you have heard.Because u are her best friend and that's what best friends are for RIGHT.
2007-01-04 18:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Dana F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell her. anyone who is a good friend would tell. and i know that you must be a good friend. it's better that she finds out and that jerk boyfriend of hers is gone. he shouldn't be cheating. that's just wrong. so tell your friend and i'm sure she'll thank you.
2007-01-04 18:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolady17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend like no other !Explain to her that YOU know she would come to you if this was you instead of her.Real friends always know things willbe hard butyou know that you can depend on each other.
2007-01-04 18:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋