I was seeing him only for 5 months, have been apart for 4 months. Is it normal that I still think about him constantly?
2007-01-04 18:08:07 · 16 answers · asked by blondedarkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess you thought a lot of him so the answer would have to be yes
2007-01-04 18:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by angie m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what are you feeling but let me tell you this; there is not a period of time to get over someone. It will depend on your feelings towards the person in question.
I had the same feelings for two girls but the duration of each situation were different from each other. One girl I kept thinking about her for 5 years and the other one I kept thinking about her for just 8 months. The one I kept thinking about her 5 years I've managed to go out with her for 2 years but the other one after the 8 months I didn't and don't want to go out with her because now I realised that I want her as a friend and not as my g/f.
Hope you got the point of my situations. All I wanted to tell you is that you can't control yourself of how you feel about a person. if you like a person that much, even if he/she hurts very much indeed, there will be still room for liking him/her.
Hope this helps and Good Luck hun.
2007-01-04 18:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no time frame it all depends on how much u like that person and how much he means to you...i still think about my ex and it has been more than 8 months apart...its hard and there are no short cuts around it i hate to say it cause i hate to hear it but its the truth only time will make it go away...try not to think about him and every time you do right away think about something else u have to do or where u wana go with ur life dont just sit and think about him i have been there and that's not where u want to be just makes everything you do boring or bad ...well i am a guy that has Fallon in love twice and twice they had to move and go away and unfortunately i am not stable enough to go after them so i would say yes its normal and it will happen here and there if he was special to you the thing is think about something else!!!
2007-01-04 18:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal but you get over a guy when you feel its time to get over him. I have been with my first bf for 11 months and it took me about a year to get over him because he was my first love. My 2nd ex I was with him for about 4 years and it took me about4-6 months. Even though I been with him longer I refused to let him hurt me anymore. He did things to hurt me and didnt know if the relationship was right.
So I went home lput on Mariah -shake it off and I shaked him off.
So its really upto you to determins how long you want to be thinking of a guy that probably dont even like you or think about you anymore. Next time you get into a relationship just leave room for disappointment- dont put your whole feelings in it to get hurt ok. Good luck
2007-01-04 18:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is that in some way you may never - For all the good memories that you had together, there will always be "that song" or "that restaurant" and for the bad ones.....
best to give it time and to try and get on with daily life. Hard as it is now to accept that may be he was not the one, i hope for you that the next person you meet is your soulmate and it will allow for you to put this relationship down to experience.
Sourround yourself with friends - their support and advice is usually right as they have your best interests at heart and will always be there for you.
good luck
2007-01-04 20:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mercucio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal...for guy's it takes however long it takes for another woman to come along....for women I wager it takes some extra time...think it'll pass when you find a new love, hopefully anyway don't sit on your hands moping about some old flame...go and get your self someone new and exciting....just remember why it ended with him!
2007-01-04 19:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by JackLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does take awhile depending on how much u loved the person. but it really isn't healthy, and eventually u need to find some new interests, and go out with others. it is never good to obsess over something in our past, know it is hard to get past the pain, need to find new things to do, keep your mind occupied. sometimes when we help others we kind of forget our troubles and focus on the problems of others. good luck
2007-01-04 18:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it takes 4 u to admitt to urself that he was never the one, and that ur Mr right is still there waiting 4 u, you will get over him when you find someone u think it will really work u will even 4get he exist.
2007-01-04 18:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by chimsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. It varies. My ex broke up with me last April... I still miss him, etc. the feelings (hurt, love, anger, etc) are all still there. It fades but if you truly cared about him it'll take longer. Honestly I wonder the same thing myself, but just focus on things you like and it'll get easier :) for us both...
2007-01-04 18:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal when you think of the good times you guys had together.
2007-01-04 20:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always going to be hard to forget about someone u spent special quailty time with,but u have to be postive with your self appricate your life now we can keap memories but dodt let them destroy you.go out and find happiness theres plenty of people who want it ,stay strong it gets better be lucky.
2007-01-04 18:37:28 · answer #11 · answered by Ally S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋