am email to tell him to just leave me alone so i could stop loving him-told him i was over it all and wanted to move on. normally he goes into these mood swings and i am not really sure what's going on but he avoids me for a few days then he's back like nothing happened.i use to call him and he wouldn't answer phone-until he is ready to get over his mood- i use to be sad, still am but today i sent the emails --like i usually do-since he won't talk till he gets over his deal. but when i send email telling him i am finished, he calls and says he just doesn't like attitude-and won't put up with it. i never do anything really that suggests attitude--maybe i really will from now on-but my question is--do ya think he gets scared that i am really thru with him and he decides to come back, or what?? i really dig him and i need to know how to handle this moody loverboy. want to hang aS LONG AS IT'S COOL.think he gets scared i'm thru?? and how should i handle the situation in the future doesthis
2007-01-04 17:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by m.wright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a boyfriend who used to threaten to break up with me every time he didn't get his way. I called his bluff the third time it happened and never dated him again. He thought we would just get back together the next day like before. Don't mess with these games. Telling someone that the relationship is over when you don't really mean it is manipulative and will bite you in the a** someday. Talk about the real issues with your boyfriend. REALLY talk. No more games. If you can't resolve the issues, then say you are moving on and really mean it.
2007-01-04 17:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably either immature or afraid of committment. heres what to do, tell him straight up your tired of his mood swings and if he cant grow up and talk about what is bugging him it really is over and that if he really likes you he can talk to you and that if your mature enough to be in the relationship then your mature enough to answer the phone and talk about the problems you are having. then if the problem persists take some time from him and then its time to end it cause honestly do you want to put up with that forever.
2007-01-05 01:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go honey. this is a new year. you are suppose to be in a romantic relationship not a moody man WASTING YOUR ENERGY. I say move on girl where the grass is greener!
2007-01-05 01:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
handle it now and be through with it
2007-01-05 01:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is manic depressive.
2007-01-05 02:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋