sometimes when we are talking on the phone, he tells me that he needs someone to cuddle him, does that mean he wishes i'm there next to him right now?
and he asks if i miss him? but when i ask him if he misses me too, he says no...?! i think he is just joking around with me...right?
do guys do this a lot? what does he mean?
2007-01-04 16:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he some times says he needs someone to cuddle it usually mean i want you here or i miss you some much or he is very lonely and needs you.He is lying to you he does miss u it's a like i guess a test to see if you really miss him who would like you if you have a boyfriend you have to be hot, i mean your a great person .My guess is you'll do just fine good luck to you both!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 17:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by mary ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh! He is testing you to see if you feel the same way about him that he does about you! He wants you there to cuddle with him. And he is hoping you would be upset by his reply "no". Cause if you are not upset then you don't miss him as much as he misses you. He is just gauging the status of the relationship. I find that some relationships the "needy" factor often transfers from one partner to the other and back again. Its ofcourse the "best times" when both are into each other equally but you have to wait out the ups and downs sometimes. Don't overreact, you may miss some of the best times you'll have together. ;)
2007-01-04 17:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by txsanchito 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are complicated. they always have been and probably always will be. but face it we are they same way to him. hes probably confused about whether you like him or not and doesnt want to be to obivious but just obivious enough to attract your attention. step up your game and flirt back if he asks if you miss him answer him well did you miss me. if he wants to be mysterious then you be that way. do little things that make him think you could possibly be interested.
2007-01-04 16:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that someone is providing the cuddling... which is why his answer to your question was "no". Clever... later he will say that he was telling you all along.
2007-01-04 16:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do this , sm time
and seriously saying we guys do this to show the girl tht we care for them ,,
just tht only...
2007-01-04 16:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by cuz he will die soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is uncertain in expressing his feelings for you
2007-01-04 16:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all part of growing up. don't take it seriously. enjoy your youth, take care of yourself and trust your instincts. it gets better.
2007-01-04 16:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by david80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess when he says no, you should ask him if he is serious. depending on how your relationship is going, you should know
2007-01-04 16:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wishes you were there but is just shy to admit it.
2007-01-04 17:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋