ok. I almost never feel any physical attraction to any guys in real life ( wit the acception of two guys). Every single guy that everyone on my friends or any girl for that matter thinks is hot i never see anything special. Not only that but i havent had a crush in 3 years.( Just two guys). Right now the only thing that seems to turn me on is prn , the only thing in the prn that turns me on is the girls. Whats so strange is that if i ever imagined myself with a girl from school or anywhere else for that matter i just dont feel an attraction and i feel kinda sick ( not that i have anything againts lesbians i just would never be able to bring myself to have sex with a girl). In real life all i think about is these two guys.( i made several posts about one of them, he has a girlfriend) Its gotten to the point where i am questioning my sexuality. I have been depressed latley becasue i feel lonely and i want 2 know what it feels like to be in a relationship but my lack of crushes limit me.
2007-01-04 16:50:35 · 12 answers · asked by nilleh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am starting to think maybe I have clinical depression but this is the only area in my life that gets me down and I let it constantly depress me even though I shouldn't.
And i am 16.
2007-01-04 16:57:26 · update #1
mayybe you just aint found the right guy....... love takes time. if you try to rush into it then it wont work. turn to God. he'll help you throught everything.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 16:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by * Miss Thang * 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋
Asexuality in the human race (nothing to do with plants) is when a man or woman (who may necessarily have a sex drive but a low one) does not want sex...is completely repelled by the idea in some cases. This is not celibacy, that's a choice. Asexuality is not a choice. In cases you can be attracted aesthetically to a person, but no more than that. You are not interested in a sexual relationship.
2016-05-23 05:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16. Give it some time. As for depression you should seek some help from a counselor. You must have some things that have gone on in your life that are causing some underlying anger. You would be amazed at what a few months of counseling may do to boost your self worth and in turn your sexuality.
2007-01-04 17:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you're more likely fixated on these two guys. if there is really no hope for a relationship with either of them, try to get them out of your system somehow....
about the prn thing... if girls don't turn you on in real life, don't worry about it.
2007-01-04 16:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
maybe you just have standards that most don't reach, because they don't measure up to the guys you previously liked. it will get better.
2007-01-04 17:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe? But doubt it, you r probably just in a long slump.
2007-01-04 16:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey,do not question the gift that God gave you.The sense of who's right and who's not.You like boys but your more sensible than other girls.You just don't throw your self around,and that's an excellent trait don't worry about your 2 crushes,and don't worry things have away of pulling together it will you don't have to keep up with all the other girls you are special for who you are-stay that way!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 17:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by pookie 2 · 9⤊ 6⤋
it sounds like you need to get a life.
life is not about sex and you may have had bad experiences with giving your sex away before. getting your heart stomped on will many times slow down the sex drive.
find an organization where you can start volunteering to make things better for other people and make friends. if you can find a best friend in your volunteer work or four good life long friends then everything else in you live will be gravy.
dont worry about your sex life unless you find the certain someone who is willing to attempt to be married to you till death do you part. the sex will be much better and more fulfilling then.
2007-01-04 17:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 3⤊ 9⤋
how old are you?
i went through an 'asexuality' phase thingy too.
and a sexuality thing as well.
just keep your head up and look out for the good things in other guys.
:(
2007-01-04 16:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by lauren, duh 2 · 4⤊ 5⤋
choose one of those two.
2007-01-04 17:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋