We were together for 2 years and i was extremely faithful to him (the only other guys i talked to were family and those that i waited on [im a waittress]) He tells me he loves me every day and he says he means it. he always tells me im the perfect girl for him and he wants to marry me.
well... he started hanging out with this other girl... she enjoys the company of other men and loves to drink and party, something he despises. he began inviting her over to his house and they spend hours together. when i found out i confronted him and he denied it until i showed him proof. any ideas??
2007-01-04 16:13:24 · 9 answers · asked by pinkii 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all so much!! i need to be hearing this!!
2007-01-04 16:32:26 · update #1
Revenge is never a good thing...just get urself away from him...it might not be easy...but just leave...that's the best way.
2007-01-04 16:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by 2Quinn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definitely feel ya on this one. I was with this guy for 4 years and the exact thing happened. My ex did the same thing to me. I found out that he really wasnt the person that I thought he was. I hate putting it like this but how many times do u think that he has lied besides this one? he tried to lie to u until u showed him proof right? Well thats something you need to think about. see darlin this may go deeper than you realize. i actually caught my ex with the party skank at his house. He told her I was a crazy obsessed bit*h! We were together for four years and I gave him my everything. Sometimes guys want a change from the usual. Plaese check into things they might go deeper than u know.
Until you know for sure I would stay away from him and just observe things and the truth is sure to come out.
2007-01-05 00:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse he is cheating on you if not physically then emotionally. I was in the same situation as you and finally we broke up. I couldn't deal with her constant flirting and coming on to guys even if she claims she never did anything. The best revenge is to move on and don't look back. You sound like a real catch for the right guy who knows how to be faithful.
2007-01-05 00:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with revenge, even if every bone in your body feels like it..........If he had the nerve to deny it until you showed him proof, then that makes him a lie AND a cheat. He's not worth your anger. You need to decide if you want to forgive, forget and move forward. It may have been just an innocent, curious fling that he wanted to experience or ??? Whatever the reason, he wasn't being honest and loyal to you. It's not right.
2007-01-05 00:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Pinkii
I have only 1 idea 4 u . One nite when your had a few drinks ask your boy freind if he would have a 3some. If he says yes ask with who, good luck i hope things work out 4 u . You sound like a nice girl. Let me no how u go !
2007-01-05 00:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put something in his shampoo to turn his hair green and then flip him off. Or you can just move on with a better boyfriend.
2007-01-05 00:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to move on, find someone worth your time, and thank goodness that you DIDN'T marry him.
Don't look back.
2007-01-05 00:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by Chris N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him real drunk dress him up in girl clothes and send it to all of his friends and family_
2007-01-05 00:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to get back together w/ him and then cheat on him! that would be hilarious!
2007-01-05 00:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by DanceForeverrrBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋