I am completely in love with this guy. It's an amazing and terrifying feeling. I love everything about him. Everything.
We just go to school together and I wouldn't even call us friends. I turn into a complete idiot around him. My mind goes blank and I don't even know what to say to him. I don't think he knows me that well.
I'm pretty sure he has no idea how I feel about him. I don't know if I should tell him. What if he laughs in my face? I couldn't take that.
I really want to get over him because I hate feeling so sad. Honestly, it's getting a little ridiculous. It's complete infatuation. And I can't deal with it. I keep feeling like I need him, like he's the only person that could make me happy.
It sucks.
So should I tell him? How else could I get over him?
2007-01-04 16:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIRSTLY : "keep feeling like I need him, like he's the only person that could make me happy."
YOU are the ONLY person that can make you happy... please don't fall into the trap of thinking somebody else can do that.
Secondly ... If you say NOTHING you will never know one way or another... if you accept three possibilities
1.) He may feel the same way
2.) He may feel the complete opposite
3.) he may just want to be friends ...
and be prepared for any of those THEN say something
I would do so in private and subtly, even something as simple as "hey do you want to go to see a movie sometime?" and see where that takes you.
In life you must take a few risks if you want to be happy.... YES if you say something there MAY be a risk that he MAY hurt you by not feeling the same way ... but you have to consider that THAT is his Loss NOT yours
Throw a little caution to the wind and see how things go ... if they go well FANTASTIC :) if not so well .. Hmm well There are always more fish in the sea and maybe even something better.
GOOD LUCK :)
2007-01-04 16:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by ll_jenny_ll here AND I'M BAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like more of a crush to me. how can you love someone u hardly know?? but in any case you could try to a small hello to start it off or maybe find a friend of a friend to help you out.
2007-01-05 00:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by dr_pepper_girl19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. THEN YOU
CAN GO FROM THERE. IT ABOUT CLOSURE ONE WAY OR
ANOTHER UNTIL YOU DO THIS YOU WILL CONTINE TO
FEEL THIS WAY.
2007-01-05 00:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart
2007-01-05 00:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.
2007-01-05 00:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋