please, please answer!!!?

Question

So I was wondering, does that "spark" actually exist between two people that love each other? What if you really love someone but that ''spark'' isn't there. Does that mean you aren't meant for each other? Please answer cause I really need to know.

Answer 1

Yes, there should be something there that stands out as this is the man for me. The "spark" can come later in a relationship, so if you like him enough, give it some time and see what happens. But, if you never get that signal that he is the one, then let him go and keep looking for the one. He is out there waiting to be found. I believe that we only have one soul-mate, and that too many people give up on finding them and then settle for less.

Answer 2

That "spark" as you call it is just an expression that allot of people use for lack of a more descriptive term ,,,, People have to grow on each other ,,,, It may or may not take over night ,,,, It just depends on the individuals involved ,,,,, You didn't mention your gender but that doesn't matter really ,,,, look at this person as the potential parent of your children ,,,, check his or her parents out ,,,, Usually if you want to get and idea of what your potential mate is going to look like in 30 or 40 years look at the parents ,,,, Don't be in so much of a hurry to tie yourself down to one person ,,,,, A young person is smart if they try to get as broad a range of acquaintances as then can ,,,,, Play the field ,,,, find out what's out there ,,,, Usually by tying your self down to early it could probably cause you to miss meeting Mr or Miss Right ,,,, Take your time and meet as many people as you can ,,,,, It will help you make a wiser decision as to what kind of person you want when you are ready for a more serious or involved relationship ,,,,,

Answer 3

well I guess it depends on what you mean by spark, but if you mean attraction and passion, well yes, that's pretty important. If you can't define what you mean by spark, then maybe you are building it up to mean something that even you don't understand. You can't base a relationship on emotions and undefined "feelings". If you are uncertain about your relationship maybe it does lack passion, but have you also asked yourself about other things like compatablity, how he treats you, is he a good person, hardworking, do you admire him, does he support and encourage you and your dreams etc....

Answer 4

That "spark", "flame", 'fire", "chemistry", "magnet" or what have you is what you feel when you're in love. It can't stand alone. So, if that thing isn't there, you can't actually say your in love, perhaps, you just like, look up, care, admire, or you have a crush on or infatuated to the person.