if yes why do u think it's right ...If no give your reasons !
2007-01-04 15:54:56 · 31 answers · asked by Jarih 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, before I sign a lifetime agreement I'm going to know what I'm getting.
2007-01-04 15:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That depends on how you and the other person view sex. It's definitely safer to wait until after marriage, but that doesn't mean that the two of you will be happy with the sex after you've committed. This is important, because the act of sex is symbolic of the relationship itself. If one person is more aggressive in bed, then that person will also be the more aggressive person outside of bed. If they try and try to please you, and you're never satisfied, then that'll become true in the relationship as well. If one person just takes what he/she wants without any concern to his/her mate, then they'll probably be like that in the relationship too.
I support sex before marriage, but you have to be careful. I think that you should know someone for awhile before having sex with them. Then again,for some people, if sex is just sex for fun, then that isn't necessarily going to be the case.
It's up to the individual.
2007-01-05 00:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly fine to have sex before you're married, as long as you really really love the person and see a future with them... If you plan on getting married, there's nothing wrong with seeing what the sex is going to be like for the rest of your married life. Marriage is pretty much just a piece of paper anyway... if you love the person, why not have sex with them? It's the highest expression of love and trust, and you need that before you marry a person.
Oh, and two of the biggest argument starters in a marriage are about money and sex. It's a good idea to see if you're compatible before you get married so it won't end in a divorce even faster...
2007-01-05 00:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way, never! Everyone should wait until marriage, and not just for religious reasons. I'm sorry, but I can't really respect people who have sex before marriage (I feel some thumbs downs coming up...). How do you know that you will want to be with that person for the rest of your life? What if they leave or cheat on you and you get hurt? I just think people should think about their morals before they do that.
One already...Ha! I knew it!
2007-01-04 23:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by ღღღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely, sex is a big part of marriage and it is only right to see if you two like what the other has to offer. Makes sense to see if you guy's are compatible before you tie the know.
2007-01-04 23:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely not okay to have sex before marriage.
I am a Christian and in God's holy word it says that sex was designed to be enjoyed by one man with one woman only after marriage.
A marriage is a holy union blessed by God and sex is only blessed when it is practiced inside of marriage.
God is the one who invented sex.
Don't you think he knows what he's talking about?
2007-01-05 00:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Madame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is I had sex for six years before marriage and I am still married to the same woman and I am still doing it like animal.
2007-01-05 00:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Armando 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fine. I also think it's a part of growing up, learning about yourself and learning about love. I do think you have to be careful when picking partners, and I'm not condoning being promiscuous. However, I don't think someone that does have premarital sex should be judged so harshly. It is a personal choice, and I think those that do not believe in it need to respect those that do.
I honestly think you have to have sex with someone before you marry them; I think sex complicates and brings intimacy to a relationship. I think couples need to experience this and know their relationship with sex before they are married.
2007-01-05 00:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not neccesarily right, that all depends on the person. But it's not wrong. I think it's pretty silly to wait, how do you know you won't end up marrying someone who sucks in bed, or someone who refuses to do anything other than missionary? You'd be stuck with them forever!
2007-01-04 23:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It sets the stage for failure, and is for clueless people and liberals. The divorce rate is now about 50 per cent, as opposed to maybe 2 per cent in previous times. The ways of liberalism are proven not to work.
There are profound spiritual reasons why you should never have sex before you're married.
2007-01-04 23:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋