Ok me and my fiance are having trouble. I love him and all of you know this...Lately he has been I guess -tired of me- i dunno what to do...he has been ignoring my calls, and has just been really mean to me just for askin him a simple question...I know me and him talk alot on the fone and all, and yes I do call him a pretty good bit...how can I make things better with him? I want things to work out. What should I do...to show him that I want things between me and him to be right??? HELP ME PLEASE...i need advice, b4 i go crazy over this...any advice is appreciated
2007-01-04 15:53:35 · 14 answers · asked by ~*Mrs.Madrox*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Msybe he really just needs some space. try not to irritate him so much with the calls. Everyone knows that guys hate talkin on the phone. I say that you should find something else to do with your time so you wont be focusing on him so much. Maybe that is what he is doing. Maybe he wants to have a life outside of his life with you and I think you should accept it and do the same. By callin him like crazy you are more than likely on his nerves and are only going to push him away... Absence makes the heart grow fonder... its true. If you aint givin him time to miss you then how can he? Ya know... Just stop freakin out. Everything is fine... Just hang out with your friends and concentrate on other things for a while. If he loves you then he isnt going anywhere.
2007-01-04 16:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to work on your communication skills with each other before taking the plunge into a marriage ... take some time to yourself to figure out what is bothering you about his behaviour and how it is impacting him. Then, when the two of you have a chance to sit down alone and without distractions tell him you've noticed some changes, how it's impacting you and that you want to talk to him about it. Listen to what he says and what he needs as well. He's the only one who really knows whats going on with him - whether he's stressed about something, just needs some space, is rethinking the relationship, etc. etc. But seriously, you guys need to talk and come to a compromise about how you can both be happy together. And if you guys can't work it out now, don't think it'll get better just by getting married.
2007-01-05 00:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is to give him some space, he will come around. He is probably just scared and nervous. It's normal. But if you keep asking him then that will make him more mad. If after you give him some space and he still doesn't come around then just sit him down and ask him what is going on. You have a right to know since you guys are getting married.
2007-01-04 23:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Moni0718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him...let him call you for once and if he doesnt well then that should prob tell you something. Give him a bit of space, guys hate being smothered. Good luck!
2007-01-04 23:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his space... stop calling him as often and don't talk to him as much for a little while... then maybe he won't be as distant with you and miss you calling him and stuff... if this doesn't work, just talk to him about why he's distant and what he wants...
2007-01-04 23:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him as much and let him again out with his friends maybe he just wants a little space for a little bit to get used to things
2007-01-04 23:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by pandas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to spend one on one time together maybe plan a trip out of town doesn't have to be any where extreme just a place to get away from your normal life
2007-01-04 23:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jen Bug <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has something on his mind that he is not sharing with you. I would sit him down and have a talk, ask him what's up. Good luck.
2007-01-04 23:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by RubyRemfear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ignoring you - you should do the same - let him call you - if he does not then it means he is not interested - good luck
2007-01-04 23:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Acknowledge the fact that you're a beautiful, independent girl and you can find someone better.
2007-01-04 23:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋