we were togather for 3 years and it ended cause jelousy, clingy and just not paying that much attention to her. its been 3 months now and lately i been ignoring her so i can move on i feel alot better now and she wants to hang out with me what do you think i should do if i hang out with her i still want her back what do i do
2007-01-04 15:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take her back and have more confidence!!!
And pay more attention to her!!!
2007-01-04 15:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a lot like the situation I used to be in a while ago...
Well the usual 'rule' is to stay away from each other for 6 months, but me and my ex didn't do that.
Sure, you can talk to her again, but remember to keep the relationship as JUST friends, at least for now. Wait a few weeks, maybe even a month, before you really consider going back to her again. You broke up with her because you didn't pay as much attention to her as she or you had hoped. So, do you think you'll be able to improve on that? Or deep down, you know you'll still be the same as before? If you don't think you can avoid the jealousy, the clinginess and the lack of attention again, then either work on it, or forget it all together. It's not worth going through pain again, and I mean for BOTH of you.
It's one thing to be friends and talk again, but another to try dating an ex again. She'll likely feel as hurt and confused as you are, so don't push anything. You have all the time in the world.
Now, go out there and talk to her, and make friendly conversations, as if you two had been friends all your lives! ;)
2007-01-05 00:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Unefemme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy is the key word. You have made up your mind not to see this girl anymore.Ignoring etc... YOu need to go on. and not see her anymore. NO N O NO you shouldnt have any contact with her. You have made up your mind. Seems like if you have feelings for her. If you have a friendship just take it slow. I really dont think you need to go back with her. You have doubts about this relationship. Look hun .. I cant tell you what to do no one can my only solution is to follow your heart.
2007-01-05 00:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want her back then hang out with her. If you find that all she does is bring you down, get over her and find someone else.
2007-01-04 23:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work before, it probably won't now. You will just set yourself and her up for dissapointment if you hang out with her. It's hard to let go but you probably need to see what else is out there for you.
2007-01-04 23:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stil want to be with her then catch up with her, see how she is doing and find out why she wanted to catch up and what she wants from you - friendship or relationship. If its only friendship and you still like her then you need more time apart
2007-01-04 23:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, don't worry, move on first, find a girlfriend, and ONLY after this invite your EXgirlfriend to the restourant or enywhere else...just be friends...
2007-01-04 23:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by artem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋