my ex's family and i are very close i still go to all the family functions with our son. but all of a sudden he refuses to go cause i am there and he wont see his son cause he has to come to my house and see him. but yet he calls me every once in awhile to ask stupid questions i want to know if this has something to do with his new gf or does he really want nothing to do with me?
2007-01-04 15:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there was an answer on there asking why i still go to the family function. because his family wants me there and i always say to him he can see his son whenever he wants. and another thing him and i were good friends after we broke up we always hung out and did family things together
2007-01-04 15:52:30 · update #1
his new gf is not allowed at any of the family functions ever cause of her lying to his mom blocking his mother # so she could not call her own son and other reasons that i will not go into detail aboout. she also blocked my # and has told me that if anything happened to my son to find another way of contacting him.
2007-01-04 16:04:41 · update #2
From a guys point of view.. It sounds like he doesn't want to hurt his new girlfriend even though he hurt you in the past. And yeah you may be right he probably does'nt care much for you especially if he seems really distant. Sorry to hear you're going through a hard time. :)
Cheer up things will get better :)
2007-01-04 15:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by snatza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably both!!! Although it is immature for him to not go to his OWN family funtions, HOWEVER why are YOU going to them?????? If you want your son to have a father than you are going to have to realize that that man wants NOTHING to do with YOU, and except that and move on. Don't be so selfish. Let the man come get his son and take him to HIS family functions WITH OUT YOU THERE!!!!! I know it sounds harsh, but damn girl, Grow Up!!! Let the man see your son and NOT have to be at your house. Truth is if I was in that situation with a person like you I would just not see my kid either! But you need to stop being like that because the only one you are really harming is your child!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with will o the west, you are getting in the way of him and his family, regardless of wether or not "they" want you there, HE does not. You sound like a trouble maker to me. Why did you ask this question if you were only going to try to debunk every answer? Some people can just only see what they want to I guess. I feel sorry for your child.
2007-01-04 23:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a little like you're putting your ex into an awkward situation by showing up at his family functions. That's not quite fair, really. You should ask him to take his son to those events instead of you, at least to most of them. But point out that it's good for his son if you take him sometimes -- like when your ex can't easily go because of work, say.
I doubt that his behaviour has much to do with his new girlfriend or even whether he wants to avoid you. It's more about you getting between him and his family. Put yourself in his shoes.
2007-01-04 23:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its only been like that since the new gf came along then I would say its cause of her. Have a chat to him and tell him he needs to see his son
2007-01-04 23:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that type of relationship with my sons fathers family...except I befriended his new wife and now there is no uncomfortableness (if thats a word). anyway, it very well could have something to do with the girlfriend, all you can do is be sure its known that you no longer want to be with him. its a wierd soap opera type of relationship but best for your child because children need family and vice versa
2007-01-04 23:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by redheaded 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is having major issues
2007-01-04 23:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking the wrong people....why don't you ask your ex or his family since you are so close to them......
2007-01-04 23:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has alot to do with his new gf, he still wants to be in your lives but yet he doesnt want to show it b/c of her.
2007-01-04 23:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by 23aisena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is the new girl friend my dad acts like that she hates me so he does that is just how that crap works
2007-01-04 23:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by angel tears 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋