ok so heres some backround.. i hooked up with this guy for almost two month.. nothing but kissing.. i thougth we really liked eachother .. well at least i really liked him.. but i figured he liked me back bc who would stay with someone that long and just hookup.. anyway so i go to a bar one night with a friend get really drunk and sleep at this guys house with her... even though nothing happened we got into a fight and stopped talking.. no later that happened i found out he was talking to someone on myspace a few days before... after we stopped talking he went out with her!! after two months of them together she tells him shes going away to college and they break up.. coinsidently me and him start talking again and he claims hes done with her and still really likes me.. idk wut to belive bc we were tlaking the other night when she called and he totally avoided her... does he still like me? if he does am i suposed to get back with him or is that just like being the door mat.. help =]
2007-01-04 15:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by xoditzxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP HIM!!!
2007-01-04 15:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you got a serious dilemma. with my experience dating guys, i think that he DOES like you but you really have to keep your guard up. i'm not saying don't trust the guy, but he could just be playing you. think about how long you've known him. you hooked up with him for two months and he didn't cheat on you so there's a huge possibility that he really likes you and realized what a mistake he has made. you have to try to read him. is he bullshitting or telling the truth? get to know him some more and then decide. don't think that you have to get back with him. give it time. if he's rushing you to make a decision tell him you need time to think and that he should respect that. if he doesn't, don't even go for him. on the brightside, you could be getting yourself into a relationship that could really work out =) just make the choice you KNOW you won't look back on and regret. goodluck =)
2007-01-04 23:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by justsomegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...r u nothn but a plaything tht he can leave u whenever he wants n again return whenever he wants. If he liked u he should have sorted things out wid u long ago n not now after bcomin alone again. These kinda boys r dose dogs who r desperate 2 get a girl n just any1 wud do 4 dem. blieve me if u say no few days latr he'll propose sum1 else. It mght b difficult but if u want safety get him out of ur mind!!!
2007-01-04 23:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by True_lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but I think he just doesnt want to be lonely. I bet if she was still around he wouldent even talk to u. Dont be a rebound. Meet someone new this guy prob has low self esteem and thats why he needs the internet to find a date lol.
2007-01-04 23:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by 23aisena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋